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Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Fred89, Jun 19, 2015.

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  1. Fred89

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    have an oral fixation and would prefer oral sex to penetration and possibly only have oral sex in a relationship.(!)
     
    #1 Fred89, Jun 19, 2015
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    I could definitely be in a relationship where we only did oral. I like to bottom occasionally but I prefer oral.
     
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    How hard would it be to find a boyfriend like that?
     
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    I dated a guy for 2 months who loved oral and hated penetrative sex, so we just stuck to oral.
     
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    Even though I've only dated a few guys (between my schedule and living where I do it makes dating hard anyway) all of my relationships have been like that. We actually separated because we decided we weren't really compatible outside the bedroom.
     
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    Orals definitely what I think of when I see a cute guy, but I could never be strictly oral
     
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    I'm a virgin, but I think I would prefer oral over penetrative sex.
     
    #7 AJ56, Jul 1, 2015
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    Oral is great, but giving up bottoming is probably asking too much for me.
     
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    oral and anal for me
     
    #9 Chicagoblue, Jul 1, 2015
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    Oral and anal for me (bottom)
     
    #10 ToneDef, Jul 1, 2015
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    I have IBS, so it's just going to be more practical sometimes to be oral only. I am resigned to that fact. I bottom when I am able, but I am single anyways. It is all moot.
     
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    I love oral. One of the best things ever, but I couldn't give up bottoming. To much fun
     
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    Yeh please tell me when you figure that out.
     
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    no not for me
     
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    I only like giving oral, and I don't find oral from the receiving end all that great. Bottom is not bad, but I can only cum from jerking.

    I tried topping before but I don't see how other men can enjoy it. The sensation isn't enough for me to ejaculate. I guess that's why I'm a bottom.
     
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    Maybe not oral exclusively, but penetration alternatives.

    I guess it just seems like penetration is such a hassle compared to all the other fun things you can do.
     
    #16 Void Puppy, Jul 15, 2015
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    I don't think I could do giving oral, receiving yeah maybe.
    Anal (either way) I really don't know.

    I've never done anything, or been in a relationship of any type though.
    Personally I think the best relationship (if I was ever in one) would be something like "love not sex", or to have an Asexual boyfriend..
     
    #17 SimplyJay, Jul 15, 2015
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