This might sound like an odd thread, but I want to orgasm without stroking myself. With all the guys that I've met, I've always had to jack off to finish. Even if someone jacks me off, or I start grinding, I still cannot orgasm unless I stroke myself to finish. Has anyone gone through this? And what helped you to achieve orgasm without masturbating? In all honesty I think I've watched too much porn.
Same way here. I have been with... a lot of guys and I have only been able to cum from bj from my husband. Every other time I have to finish myself off. It varies for everyone, but usually its that you got used to responding to a very specific sensation on your penis, for a specific a mount of time, and with a specific rhythm. With me, it just takes time for someone to learn exactly how to get me off. What helped me was an experiment we did because I was curious. I went without cumming for almost a month, but then he would give me a blowjob every night. After a week of this I would actually start getting close but then we would force ourselves to stop. Now I can cum from him giving me a bj almost every time. Not sure if it was him learning exactly how to do it, me learning to respond to it, being ultra horny because I hadn't cum in a month, or a combination of all of the above.
When I was younger cumming was never an issue. Now I regularly fall into this situation as well. Can't finish.
