I just wanted to share something that I learned quite a while ago about gay male sex. Lots of gay male couples dont penetrate each other and dont feel the need to do so. I am in a relationship which has lasted 3+ years and have only done it a few times. I just think its important that gay guys dont feel pressurised in to doing it. It's perfectly normal and healthy not to do it. Just thought you guys ought to know.
I don't think I've ever met someone pressured to do it, when he didn't want to. It's usually "Hey, do you..." and before I finish the question the other guy is "Yes, I love anal".
As much as I love anal , I'd probably prefer lots of hugging, and kissing and oral. especially when we first meet up ..
Yeah, I've heard it before... Yet the first thing anyoe thinks of when hearing the word "gay" is anal sex. I'm not a fan of the thought of doing it, but sooner or later I guess I'd try it to see what it's like.
Thanks for writing this post Robert! I've not been in a sexual encounter before, so I can't say exactly what I would do at this point. I guess I see myself as sexually conservative to some degree as I probably would not have sex with a gay guy unless I felt a deeper connection to him and felt like he could be the one. i.e. Not the first few dates.
This is a good thing to remind the sweeties of. (*hug*) I really need to receive penetrative sex, because that's how I work; it's not how other people work. And they shouldn't feel like they are broken or missing out on something. Nobody should be forced to do anything they don't want to do.
I can say that for me as a top that I felt nothing when I had sex with my bf. I don't know why. However, I love power bottoming my one dildo but not all the time. I'd rather give head most any day. Just hearing the person get off. It's like its own high to me. *Shrug*
