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Difficult to find positions to use my dildo

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by biswed, Jul 14, 2015.

  1. biswed

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    I have some difficulty with the positions to use my dildo. I have tried to just sit on it but it's not easy when I have not used it for more than 10 minutes ago. I would like if you said one/any positions to use it in. BTV it is called Epic Dickinson and is 23 cm (8 inches 9 inches with the suction cup) long and has a 17 cm circumference. :help:
     
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    Hey sweetie! :3 (*hug*)

    Sitting on it is usually how I take mine, although mine has smaller dimensions.

    Have you tried inserting it while lying on your back?

    ~ Adrienne
     
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    I have not tried that, but when it goes in for the first time in more than 10 minutes then it might hurt a little but after that it slides in without any problems. Thanks Adrienne (*hug*)
    Another question is if you like to suck your dildo before you put it in or if I'm weird.
     
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    There's nothing weird about pleasing ourselves with our toys. Do what feels good for you. I've sucked my dildo, but I prefer the real thing because I get to hear him tell him how good I am :slight_smile:

    When you insert the dildo, make sure there's plenty of lube, be sure to spread your cheeks, and enter slowly. This will ease the dildo inside you. Once you relax, it will go in and out much easier.

    I usually sit on the dildo. I sometimes attach the dildo to an exercise machine to achieve doggy style action.

    HTH
     
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    When I've used my fingers, it's easiest to sit with my legs pulled up towards my body and spread outwards, with my butt slightly facing outwards. Does that make sense? That's also the best position for me to reach my prostate which is a bonus.
     
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    Well, your dildo is a bit bigger than mine, so I can't say if I'd have the same experience as you.

    What you need to do is make sure that you're patient. Don't try to fight your anal sphincter. If you do, it won't be any fun. :frowning2: If you're patient with yourself, your body will have the time to adjust that it needs.

    I don't suck on mine, but that's not because it's gross or something, but just because my mouth and what I'm doing with it is not part of my eroticism.

    So, is the size ever an issue, or is it just that it hurts at the beginning, but stops later on?
     
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    It is the size of my dildo makes me feel pain in the beginning. I have used smaller "dildos" and then it does not hurt. But I get more pleasure by Epic Dickinson he reaching further into me and he's flexible and he looks lifelike. I wish I could post a picture of it but it is not suitable for 13 year olds to see (Spartan 117 and some/all of the EC personnel thinks that).
     
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    I have one with a suction cup on it and found good success actually sticking it to the wall, of all things. Find the right spot by inserting it comfortable and backing up to the wall, where it touches the wall, adhere it there. It's like getting mounted by a gent that is making you do all the work for him ;-)

    Weird talking about it, but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
     
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    I think I know what you mean. Much like the fetal position, but you make a 45 to 90 degree angle on the legs.
     
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    I just want to put it out there that I think it would have been really cool to have a dildo at 15. :3
     
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    It is there, but not many dare tell me that they have a dildo and if they do so they are bullied for it. I really like my dildo. I have it in me right now.
     
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    Exactly. Should work, but everyone's different of course.
     
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    Position as you suggested Epic is very comfortable to start in. And it does not hurt when I put out the first time when I'm in that position.
     
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    So is that a good way to start and then move into some other position that you want to?
     
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    Yes it's a good starting position.
     
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    I had the same type of difficulties as you did at that age even though I didn't have an official dildo; I had other makeshift items(not recommended to other teens reading). Part of the problem is that I was just naturally tighter back then. I weighed less, and it made insertion harder. I think that area gradually loosened up for me as I got older. One very important thing to do when using a dildo is to breathe in a lot and be very calm. Don't try to take it all at once. Hover over it and go inch by inch. You may find that using your other small ones is good as a warmup for a few minutes, then go to the other one.