Hi All, I am on the phone here so can't search for posts. Apologies if someone has asked this recently. Anyways, so along with all the issues becoming comfortable with your sexuality and coming out I also have phimosis and trying to get over porn which was a big part of my teenage years.. so far 2 months. I feel like my whole life is one giant problem sometimes sigh.. So is there anyway to lower your libido while abstaining from masturbation just to make it easier? Atm am finding it so hard to stay focussed and not think about anything especialky before I go to sleep. "Wood" I guess is becoming more frequent. I feel like I am too sexually active for my current situation. Hope that makes sense. Ah and also stretching for the phimosis which is hard sometimes when you get excited easily.. Thanks everyone. Cs65