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Need help with masturbating techniques

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by anon754101, Aug 28, 2015.

  1. anon754101

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    So I was straight all my life but when watching some pornography I started to become really aroused by the shapes and thrusts of penises more than looking at the beautiful women.
    So now when I am masturbating I start thinking about penises and fantasizing about pleasing one and being pleased by one, it is driving me wild and crazy!! So I have started going one step further and sliding a finger in my ass and my God it was the best sexual feeling I've ever had!!
    I'm super curious now about whether I'm bisexual now and am wondering if anyone can give advice about any new stimulating bi-curious masturbating techniques or things to try out I would love to try them out before I go out in the real world and try to meet a guy without embarrassing myself in the bedroom!!

    Thanks for reading xx
     
  2. AKTodd

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    A website that is mentioned here from time to time is jackinworld.com. They have a page on different masturbation techniques. I don't know that any of them specifically relate to gay or bisexual experiences, but if nothing else you may have fun exploring.

    Beyond that you might consider some kind(s) of toy. Prostate stimulators, butt plugs, and dildoes are all readily available if you're looking to experiment with anal stimulation. A couple of things:

    A) Amazon sells virtually everything, generally at the best price and includes customer reviews. Always read the customer reviews. And don't forget lube (water base is probably best) if you don't already have some.

    B) when considering a toy, always be sure to get something that has a flange or is otherwise shaped so that it can't go all the way inside. You really really don't want that trip to the ER.

    C) no matter how horny you may be never, ever try to use an item for anal penetration that is not explicitly designed for it.

    Hope this helps, play safe, and have fun.:thumbsup:

    Todd
     
  3. QueerTransEnby

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    Totally agree with the above, be safe.