hi, does any one else masturbate this way? they think it can cause troubles with sex, not sure if that includes gay sex.. I do find it harder to ejaculate when using the old hand method though and the orgasm is not as good..
I think if you search the archive here, KaraBulut, our former medical expert, wrote on that issue a couple of times. I don't remember the specifics, but from what I do remember, he indicated there were a number of potential concerns with prone masturbation if done on a regular basis.
I've heard that prone masturbation can cause damage, and it also desensitizes your penis so that it's more difficult to achieve orgasm through other masturbation methods or even through intercourse.
should I just start and masturbate the normal way? wonder if it will take me long to get out of doing it the other way? how was it for you guys swapping techniques ?
I gradually switched over. Try using your hand(or hands) with no pressure to have an orgasm. Some people like a firm grip, some like a loose grip. Some like stimulation down the shaft, and others focus nearly exclusively at the head. Give yourself an hour or more to just sit back and stroke. Use lubrication. It took me a few months to switch over. However, it was more out of necessity. Prone masturbation just got to be too much work and did not stimulate me enough after awhile. Just my take.
you probably need a new technique. there's no real correct way because it depends on how the person like to be stimulated. with the exception to prone masturbation in this case, it might cause some dysfunction with the penis. there's one "ritual", where you could probably have one hand with a firm grip on the shaft of your penis and the other rotating on the head of your penis( think moving a joystick, but don't grab tightly and abuse it). then every once in a while, move your hand up and down the shaft. lube definitely helps, so can lotion. YES I KNOW, very detailed, but it's an example of how to masturbate a bit better then damaging your penis. maybe a fleshlight or sex toy may help you get off the habit.
I'll try some of those techniques , and you can never give me enough details ! think for me it when I started this way I was simulating having sex with some one. like when in bed I'd lay there on my stomach and pretending I was having intercourse with a girl and moving my penis in and out of her or I'd pretend , with an anal toy that I would pretend was a guy having sex with me. but never thought that could end up hurting my penis or my ways of doing it... whats the go with sex education at school these days? is this taught at all? I never got to go when I was at school
HealthyStrokes.com I still cant get past this, the orgasm I have by hand just not as nice for me..:icon_sad:
Did this myself when i was younger and didnt really know what i was doing. Didnt know this was bad tbh. Just grow out of it. I have to say i did it alot! I am fine as far as i know thankfully.
but how do at my age just grow out of it? it seems to be set in my mind for the better orgasm ejaculation experience for me..