I've heard gay and bi men have higher chances of getting STDs. I've read a little bit and that seems to be true, can anyone give me more information on it?
Use protection! Always, anally...ALWAYS. But yeah, it is hard, especially as oral is a grey area...but there's so many things you can still do, let your mind wander, think of them. Me, I love full latex bodysuits, so I'm like the biosphere alternative, weirdo. But there is much you can do, maybe try not to think of the limitations, so much as the possibilities?
Think of you first always, if he refuses to put on a jimmy, then show him to the door. Your safety should always be first priority