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I'm not into anal.. Complications

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by AsIUsedToBe, Nov 14, 2015.

  1. AsIUsedToBe

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    I'm just not into it at all receiving or.. delivering? Lol I love everything else. Just like everyone else would. Oral and all that jazz. I feel like this will complicate things in my future. Am I being stupid for worrying about this?:icon_sad:
     
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    There's no need to worry.
    There are many gay guys who are not into anal.
    And it won't complicate anything so chill :slight_smile:
     
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    Check out this thread HERE.

    In a nutshell - around a quarter of gay guys aren't into anal to varying degrees. A fair number of the remainder aren't going to be overly bothered or throw you out of bed if you aren't into it. Plenty of other fun things to do.

    If you were to get into a relationship with a guy who was so totally into anal that he could never be satisfied if sex didn't include it every time and you are so totally not into it that you can't stand doing it at all ever - that might be a problem. But the odds lean more toward it not being a big deal.

    Todd:slight_smile:
     
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    I'm still a virgin, so I can't say for sure, but the idea of delivering anal is a bit undesirable for me, so I'd sa you don't need to worry about it.
     
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    I actually logged on just now because I was thinking about a literal identical problem... if that makes you feel any better. I'm also worried about that sorta stuff, seems like that's the "major" sorta alternative to heterosexual sex?