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A Kind Of Personal Question

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Contact1111, Nov 20, 2015.

  1. Contact1111

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    Is it possible to be bi, but not remotely interested in anything ass-related. Nothing against people who like it, but given the nature of what it is I have no interest in it personally. Other than that, I'm 100% sure about my orientation. I think/have fantasies about penises a lot and it really turns me on. I also have had experiences where I've secretly had somewhat of a thing for a couple of guys that I was friends with. Also, pretty much all of the gay things that one could sexually do other than the ass-related stuff is and has been a real turn on for me. I was just wondering if this is possible, since when most people I've been around with make jokes/talk about what "gay" people do sex wise, it generally involves people saying it's butt-sex.
     
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    Not all gay guys like anal. You can engage in oral and mutual masturbation, plus foreplay.
     
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    You don't even have to be gay to like anal, either. I've met a few straight guys who are into it, they just prefer to do it themselves or have their girlfriends get in on it to help. So the type of sex you engage in doesn't really define your sexuality. Hell, your sexual partners don't even do that. XD
     
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    This. ^ Totally.
     
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    Not all gay guys like anal. Period.
     
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    If I recall right, it's only about 35% of gay men that engage in anal sex.
     
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    I don't know what the percentage is, but you don't have to like it. Personally, I've gotten kind of tired of all the prep work that has to be done to do it correctly and safely. There are lots of other things you can do that are just as fun.