So the first question that comes to mind of people if they are 'gay' to me is if they are a 'top' or 'bottom'. If you could please, post which one you are with a brief explanation as to why. Thanks So, I'm a bottom. Call me a kinky, but I LOVE the idea of being 'dominated'
I dunno. When me and my girlfriend got together, I was the first to tell her I had a crush on her, than I was the first to ask her if I could call her my girlfriend (following in my father's footsteps) and I'll probably be the first to ask her to marry me if we stay together so I consider myself a top. I like being dominant.
Top. I'm too lazy to go over the overly time consuming preparations required to be bottom. And I'd rather die than have my partner's member stained in my excrement. Perhaps I may give bottoming a shot one day, but I'll need a lot of time to make sure nothing shameful happens.
I consider myself versatile, but not at the same time. For example I may meet a guy and I'm attracted to him because he's more feminine and I want to top him. In that relationship I'll always be a top. But I may meet a guy who fits MY definition of a top... bigger, rugged, more dominating than me. In those cases I want to be his bottom.
Definitely a bottom. I'm the more submissive type and love the feeling of being, as you said, dominated :lol: ---------- Post added 9th Dec 2015 at 07:46 PM ---------- Bottom. I'm definitely the more submissive type and I love the feeling of being, as you said, dominated :lol:
I'm sometimes a bottom when it comes to the flirting and getting to know someone in a relationship I'm a top for some reason I don't like making the first move but when in it I feel more confident
I'm versatile. If a straight person asks me though, I start asking them questions about their sex life
I have never had any encounters with that. So, I do not have an answer. But I would think I would be a top. Just because I hear you don't have to do much just make sure your partner has cleaned up. I would not mind trying to bottom as well just to know how it feels.
I'm a bottom. I am very submissive, but a shy yet sassy submissive. My girlfriend would never let anyone dominate her. And I love it! I am also submissive out of bed and around most people. I'm a bit of a pushover and I let people boss me around (especially my twin sister). Sometimes I hate it, but it's who I am, even if I get walked on. Most would probably think it's a confidence issue, but it's not. My confidence is average. I guess I'm just afraid of hurting someone's feelings or making someone mad. Though, everyone has a limit. So when someone crosses that line, things can get scary.
I dont really know it yet... But considering my sexual fantasies, I think I am versatile. When my partner is as big as or bigger than me (body type/height), I tend to like being bottomed but when he is smaller, I like being top.
If I was to ever have sex with a guy I'd for sure prefer to be the bottom. Have always been the masculine top due to only ever being with girls, so it just feels right that a new experience should entail a totally new role. Plus the fact I have absolutely no interest in topping a guy. Could only ever get pleasure from being dom with a girl. Being totally sub for a guy, however, greatly turns me on, even if it just ends up being a one time thing.
I've only known I'm gay for a few months, but I've been writing erotic fiction with online partners for years. I tend towards the subbie side more often than not, but I can be a top anytime. So I'm more of a switch that leans heavily towards bottom. :3
Bottom, i just love the feeling of my partner hot body pressing against me and the feeling of being dominated.
I am bottom because the same sentiments but I just can't handle the PAIN! All my sexual partners doesn't know how to "prepare" me so I ended up resenting anal.