This is a TMI post, so sorry in advance! I've been married to my husband for over a year (together for 7), and we are very happy together, very in love and completely comfortable with each other. So I'm a bit concerned as to why, then, I have trouble reaching orgasm during sex. We're very regular and we keep things spiced up and experiment a lot, so it's not like it's due to boredom or anything! It takes me a good 45-60 mins to cum most of the time now, and by that point he's exhausted, and in some cases has gone twice!! I don't understand it at all? Both versatile, if that helps? Both been tested recently so it's not an infection/disease. We tried switching condom brands and lubes too just in case, but the same thing happens. Same when I masturbate too...It takes forever. I'll get close to orgasm, then the feeling goes, and then I finally manage to cum ages later! This has never happened with us before. I feel I'm letting him down. I used to be much quicker! He's definitely not bad, either! Far from it lol. Anyone else have this problem? And does anyone know anything I can do to 'hurry things up'? Thanks!
Relax. Not make reaching orgasm an essential part of sex. If you enjoy the experience, switch things around during sex, and relax.
