So as a demi-sexual, it's rare for me to find sex appealing, but when it is. I like everything but 'sperm' 'cum' or whatever you label it is. I find it gross and disgusting, and it kind of puts me off sex even more. Just me?
You're not alone- I find it to be disgusting too and it's just..eww. I feel the major need to scrub until everything turns red after coming in contact with..that.
I think it's super hot, but pretty much every other bodily fluid is absolutely disgusting so I'm really not surprised people can feel that way.
Demisexual as well so I feel you there, but I can live with it. I just panic over the thought of cleaning it as soon as possible if it's not "taken care of" where it doesn't stain so to say.......... Also the smell makes me feel sick. (I know this can vary from person to person but still)
I love it <3 hahaha and the taste and tang of it can be distinguished so you'll know the health status of your partner.
It's perfectly normal. However, I love it. The taste of it can change based on diet so if you really want to love it, give your partner a pineapple smoothie (can confirm it works). Honestly, cleaning up my partner's cum with my tongue is one of my favorite parts of finishing up sex.
I'd have to be pretty comfortable with someone to be comfortable with their cum, but the thought of it splashing on certain parts, or enjoying it in other ways (wink wink) is quite the turn on. Strange, but mine has a slightly sweet smell, especially after drying. I guess having a sweet tooth pays off, after all!
It's a bodily substance, much like waste, that is absolutely and completely disgusting, yet a very essential part of sustaining life.
If I ever do sexual things with a partner, or a man. He ain't cumming in my mouth. I find I would cry xD Then again, I'm still a virgin.
Just be honest with likes and dislikes. Trust me. Spent a year wasted in a wonderful relationship on give or get oral being a few minute conversation of worry. He didn't want to and I loved giving and finishing him off. You like what you like!