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No enjoyment during bottoming, topping, oral sex

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Iamdepressed, Dec 14, 2015.

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  1. Iamdepressed

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    I have tried masturbating. Failed. I did not feel anything good. In fact, I had a funny but feeling in legs which made it unbearable for me to continue.

    I tried oral sex. A guy once sucked my but I did not feel anything. I had an erection and it went quickly. I fingered myself but again it felt nothing.

    I tried bottoming with 2-3 guys. Never had an erection during sex and did not feel anything good.

    I tried topping. But again as soon as I start entering him I started losing my erection. Somehow I inserted it but dud not feel anything.

    I usually get erections when I wake up in the morning. I have orgasms in sleep but never when I was wake up. Usually I get erections quickly but I lose it immediately.

    What is wrong with me?
     
    #1 Iamdepressed, Dec 14, 2015
  2. Nordland

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    erectile disfunction? I'm not really sure to be honest
     
    #2 Nordland, Dec 14, 2015
  3. dreamer2891

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    do you have fantasies or kinks that arouse you? are you on anti-depressant? sometimes medication can effect people in strange ways when it comes to sexual sensations. You should also speak to your dr.. you could have tests, maybe a hormone imbalance, you might even be given viagra or something similar.

    Also - you don't HAVE to like any of the activities I listed - if you have a kink you may prefer getting off to that. Are you actually attracted to the people you are doing these activities with? if not then that would effect your response sexually.

    also have you researched asexuality? you can still get erections and arousal and be asexual - you should look into it.
     
    #3 dreamer2891, Dec 20, 2015
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    Do you have access to porn? How old are you? Are you generally pretty healthy?
     
    #4 Chicagoblue, Dec 20, 2015
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    @Dreamer2891 Oh, I didn't know anti depressants had an effect on libido.

    I generally don't find bottoming very sensational, but topping feels better. I'm not sure if I can cum hands free though. I've never actually had a wet dream, probably because of my frequent masturbation habits.

    Maybe you need an emotional connection? You know, get to know the person first.
     
    #5 Jax12, Dec 21, 2015
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