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Eager to try, but no one to try with

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Helion Solaris, Feb 9, 2016.

  1. Helion Solaris

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    I'm 20 and at uni. I'm pretty much a virgin, except for the ''naughty play'' I did as a teen with a friend. I really would like to have sex with someone I have an emotional connection with, but that seems like a lost cause. I'm way too shy to ever approach someone in real life. Any advice?... I don't like the idea of online hook-ups, but at this point it looks like that's the only option I've got.
     
  2. guitar

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    Try a dating site as opposed to a hook up app. There are gay guys looking to date out there.

    Also are you at a university or college? There should be an lgbt club at your school.
     
  3. Helion Solaris

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    I'm at a university. I'm not sure if there is a lgbt club, I've only been here about three days. I'll try the dating advice, Thanks :slight_smile: :slight_smile:
     
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    Which university are you in? UCT? Stellenbosch University? There is at least one LGBT group in UCT.