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I'm a virgin who enjoy hardcore sex

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by MiseryJoe, Feb 29, 2016.

  1. MiseryJoe

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    First of all, I would like to admit I've never had sex with anybody so far in my entire life. The kind of porn I enjoy is hardcore. Anything brutal and hardcore. Normal, regular and slow paced sexual activity rarely arouses me but my libido gets higher and reaches at its peak when I'm watching and imagining hardcore sex.

    For instance, getting pounded really hard for quite a long time (and facial expression doing so), deep throat, brutal sex, cum in the mouth, swallowing. Sometimes, I'm afraid of myself (and disgusts with myself) :bang:for liking those kinds of activities. It's weird that I like nothing but brutal and hardcore sex when it comes to sex.

    I'm thinking, 'maybe, it's because I'm virgin and have no experience of sex or close intimacy with anybody. If I happen to have sex with somebody, my perception of hardcore sex may change. I really hope so.'

    Any opinion and suggestion on my weird preference over hardcore sex. :help:I hope I'm not the only one who feels that way.:icon_sad::icon_sad::icon_sad:
     
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    Nothing inherently wrong with hardcore sex. Hell, some of the things you listed seem pretty vanilla to me for whatever that's worth.

    There are many theories as to why people are into certain types of porn that you can look into if you wish, but overall, if its not affecting other aspects of your life, then there is nothing wrong with liking rough sex.

    That being said, don't be shocked when you might not be that much into it when it comes to actually doing it. Nothing wrong with that. There are a lot of things that I find sexy as hell in my head, but actually doing it wouldn't turn me on.
     
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    Like smurf says, you may find you don't enjoy hardcore sex as much when you really experience it. Or you may love it even more.

    The key thing here is that you play safe and (equally as important) engage in whatever you do with someone who is a willing partner whose boundaries you respect (and vice versa of course).

    Some people like hardcore sex (and different people may define that differently), others like BDSM (to varying degrees and levels of intensity), some like other things. As long as everyone involved is respected and having a good time, you're probably fine.

    Todd
     
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    Thank you for your reply. I guess I have to experience sex before I made final conclusion on my view of hardcore sex.
     
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    There is nothing wrong with that everyone likes different things and have different fetish's and that's what you like hardcore stuff and that's perfectly fine (!)(!)
     
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    Yep I also thing that there is nothing wrong at liking this or that. Everyone is free, at least of mind...
    The only thing that is interesting to me (if I may say) is that you percieve that as something that you really like even though you never experienced any shared sex life.
    Have you already try to avoid porn for a while ?
    This has such a big affect on how people think, want, imagine and have sex. That definitely shapes our brains. I mean, it's like an advert. Watching everyday people enjoying their MnMs make you think that MnMs are good and that you want them. I guess that watching often Hardcore sex can make you think that it's kinda normal, that it's what you need... (as it makes believe that the woman is just an empty box ready to be filled by guys... :dry:slight_smile:

    Well, I guess that there is a work to do about "What do I enjoy" or "What images make me want ?".

    In any case, you shouldn't be disgusted by yourself. :slight_smile: You just have to be okay with it, that's what you like, so what ? Does it hurt anyone ? Does it bother anyone ? Nop, that's your life and that's it !