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I cant see myself like this and I dont know why

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by redpandaman123, Mar 1, 2016.

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  1. redpandaman123

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    Hi im 14,male, irish and most definitely gay and proud
    But I cant see myself in a relationship with a man or anyone really
    Ive got crushes on guys not just looks ive got to know them
    And even though I fantasize about being with men I cant see a relationship
    Maybe this is a faze? But has anyone else felt like this. :tears::help:
     
    #1 redpandaman123, Mar 1, 2016
  2. PatrickUK

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    There are some people who really don't want a relationship, for reasons best known to them. Maybe it's a fear of commitment, maybe they see it as a distraction from other priorities in life or maybe it's something else. It does happen, sometimes, but I don't think you should concern yourself about it now. You are 14 and you have a lot of living to do.

    As people get nearer to my age they begin to think more about the future and maybe meeting one special person to settle down with and love, but you have a long way to go before then.

    If you're not feeling it now, don't worry about it. It's all okay.
     
    #2 PatrickUK, Mar 2, 2016
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    I'm 14 as well though i'm from Denmark :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: But i feel the same, and i've been really worried, thinking ¨maybe i'm transgender and that's why i cant imagine guy me with another guy??¨ but yea i guess as Patrick says, we'll just have to wait and see :slight_smile:
     
    #3 MickTheMousie, Mar 3, 2016
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    Redpandaman: Welcome. You MIGHT be transgender. I doubt I would be a couple with my boyfriend if I wasn't a girl. I can't tell you how you feel, but ever thought about it?

    @MickTheMousie: Ever thought about being a girl?

    :kiss: <-----me and Jake
     
    #4 LizSibling13, Mar 3, 2016
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