So uh how does it feel? I'm 19 and still a virgin but I'm curious the only time I had anal was in my dreams a nd it felt absolutely amazing but those are dreams not reality.Those that have had it does it hurt at first is it possible to orgasm from prostate stimulation ?
In terms of bottoming, it's certainly possible to orgasm hands free. I bottom occasionally, and it feels really good when done correctly. For me, the thought of it turns me on so much. I top more, and it feels tight and warm inside.
Certain positions feel really amazing (usually those aim at the prostate which when hit feels VERY pleasureful) and other positions that might not feel that good or even hurt. It's important to use lots of lube and re-apply often. And your first time, your partner should start slow for the first little bit to get you used to the sensation. The first (few) time(s) will probably feel weird.
Hey sweetie, we have some health resources on this. I've only been on the receptive end of anal sex, and I really enjoy it. ^_^
All of the above. I'll put extra emphasis on the fact that anal sex should NEVER hurt. Porn and many movies make it seem like you can just stick it in, "get over the pain" and then it feels good. Any top that tries that without getting you ready isn't worth it
Seconded. One of the reasons why I disagree with going with a "hookup" for the first time you have gay sex--especially bottoming--is that it takes time and patience. I am going through this with my partner who would like to try bottoming. I have spent time "prepping" him a couple times, but we have yet to actually have intercourse after. Each time he is able to relax a bit more, but if I just forced it... He would be in significant amount of pain, and I wouldn't want him to not enjoy it and be psychologically scarred into not enjoying it. (the psychological part of this form of sex is not discussed nearly enough. If they are nervous and the muscles down there are not able to relax, it's probably not going to be fun for either party, but definitely not him)
Yeah, I thought they did a good job on it :3 The staff have these resources out there. It's not just a forum.