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Masterbation Issue

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Larry Myster, Feb 21, 2009.

  1. Larry Myster

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    Hey guys I have this weird funny "unique" way of wanking. Its really odd, I know alot of guys stroke it up and down, but I don't, for some reason when i reached puberuty, I was in a bathtub plaing "with it" and I used to hands to rub it like a sandwhitch, and ever since then that the way i done it. I only actually 'came' ONCE when I stroked it up and down. But that was only once sooo. So now, me using 2 hands to come, Idk if its the good way or the bad way. As far as I know its unknown.

    My bf tryed doing it, but he can't figure out how to come with doing that.....
     
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    I don't think that's a bad way to masturbate.

    Well, I think each and every one of us has his own special way of "feeling" good. That's why there are a lot of ways and techniques out there. And there's a difference with using your right or left hand at times, or using lube or not, etc.

    It's not a bad way. It's YOUR way. And take pride in it. :slight_smile:
     
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    it's just how you jerk it, nothing wong with it, just, as ^ said, your way.
     
  4. With masturbation, it's pretty much whatever floats your boat. There aren't really any "good" or "bad" ways to do it. So I'm not really sure what the issue is... But if not doing it the conventional way bothers you, just practice I guess.
     
  5. Larry Myster

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    I suppose, hust a bit nervouse I guess. because since (cough) you ride an @$$ in and out im a affraid it wont come you know?
     
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    There's several ways to answer your question.

    I have seen guys who use the two-handed method that you describe. It is not harmful and it will not cause any damage to your penis.

    The problem, as you've discovered, is that sexual stimulation and response is largely habit. Once you get into a pattern of doing something sexually- whether it be a position, a certain act, with lube/without lube or a certain way of stimulating yourself, it's can be difficult to get off without doing it that way.

    So, it's not an issue for you to masturbate using two hands when you're by yourself. The problem that you may run into is that other guys can't do it exactly the way you can, so it might be difficult for a guy to get you off with a handjob.

    If this is of concern for you, then you should try masturbating in a more conventional way using the "fist pump" method that guys typically use. Don't worry about coming at first. Just use this method for pleasure. When you're ready to come, you can switch to your usual method. Over time, try to push yourself closer to orgasm before you switch.

    If you have a boyfriend, he can help, too.

    In time, you will begin to respond to this method of masturbation.
     
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    i say youre doin fine, and i recommend multiple methods, keep your arsenal loaded, imean what if you sparin a wrist? you got to have a back up plan..:slight_smile:
     
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    LOL true.

    I'll practice the one hand upper downer strokeing tonight.lol :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    at a boy :wink:
     
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    Now, there's no right or wrong way to masturbate. But rubbing a sandwich? That's just wrong!! :icon_wink

    I wouldn't assume you're the first and only one to discover this method. Humanity has had thousands of years to perfect every possible method of self-pleasuring :grin:
     
  11. The Enigma

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    Wtf does "rub it like a sandwhitch" mean?
     
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    lol, \=penis |=hand....... |\| then rubbing up and down ^V^V^V
     
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    :roflmao: Nice illustration.
    I agree, don't stick to doing it one way too long. Try different things. Have fun. :goodluck:
     
  14. The Enigma

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    Im still confused. Lol
     
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    Rubbing up or down? Or rubbing them like you would rub if you wanted to get your hands hot? As in: both hands around it in a circular motion?
    (I really have too little English vocabularly to properly express what I mean. And I can hardly ask to post a movie of it, can I? :icon_wink)
     
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    Rubbing it like if you wanted your hands hot.
     
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    That's similar to how I started out doing it, though I remember it was highly dependant on how I held my fiingers. Maybe I should try if I can still get it to work sometime...
     
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    If it ends in orgasm (and you're not sore or whatnot afterwards), you're doing it right. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    Yeah i perfer it the way i do it.

    My bf said he will help out with going up and down in the furture :grin: lol