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Fetishes, anyone else?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by self feminized, Sep 17, 2016.

  1. self feminized

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    Hey all, not sure if it's the right forum, but I figured I'd try. Just wanted to see if I'm alone with my fetishes. I'm not worried about whether they're normal or not. I'm not a normal person and I like it that way :slight_smile: Anyways, my fetishes include the following:

    -feet, tight clothing, latex, leather, pvc, lingerie, bondage, humiliation, etc.

    Yes, as my name states, I'm am a feminine male, but unsure of my gender. But these are just some of the more moderate fetishes I have. There are more. Just wanted to see what people thought and if anyone shares anything up here or has even more out there ones. Also, anyone have any advice on beginning anal? I'm a little nervous to start but I really don't know how and I'm tired of reading Cosmo articles. I'm open to comments, suggestions, and questions :slight_smile: Thanks all!
     
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    Definitely dig bondage and latex. Mostly the more erotic bondage like Japanese Shibari, its more like a form of art than a kink, at least to me. And suspension bondage, have yet to meet anyone even remotely into that.

    Not into fur suiting, but I like furry art and stories.


    As for beginning anal, start small and use lots of lube. Also stick to toys made for anal play as they have wider bases to keep them from going to far inside of you. I'm a big fan of Pyrex, which is a special glass that is easy to keep clean and doesn't need as much lube as other toys. Silicone is my second preferred choice.
     
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    Bondage of nearly all types, domination, group stuff, annnnnnnddddd... glasses. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Cosmo articles? I'd almost forgotten that... :lol:

    Well, since you asked, here's the checklist:

    feet, not so much;
    tight clothing, for sure, especially denim and bike shorts;
    latex, a little more than feet, but not so much;
    leather, oh yeah, jeans, jackets and, especially, motorcycle sportbike race suits, etc.;
    pvc, nah...;
    lingerie, womens' no, male underwear, oh yeah;
    bondage, recently a vastly increased interest;
    humiliation, thought I wasn't interested, but then found a few guys who were turned on fierce by it, tried delivering it, liked it;
    etc., which includes long hair (on men), facial hair.

    I'll leave the anal advice to others, but I'm sure by now you're aware you're not alone as probably half your neighbors are fantasizing about those things right now. (!)

    Here's a tip: A good measure of how common a fetish is would be the relative abundance of porn clips you can find on line. It's basic economics. Demand begets supply.

    And the straight people are no different. While the Moral Majority, Falwell and a lot of people claim they fantasize about multiple pregnancy and years of college tuition while they have sex, in reality they are thinking of being tied up in a sling and.....
     
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    Hahaha good to know! And for the record, I think suspension bondage is awesome! Also, mummification, encasement, sensory deprivation, isolation, the list goes on and on. Thanks, all! :slight_smile:
     
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    Latex, leather, lingerie, bondage... Love all of these ngl
     
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    I'm crying :tears: some of the stuff I'm into I can't find porn of. It's depressing.

    Bondage, s/m, choking (being the one choking someone else), blood (also crying because of safety issues some things I'd like to do may never be able to do), not a furry, but I'm also interested in pet play.
     
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    My "rule of thumb" is not the be all and end all of the question, for sure. There are some search terms that are "censored" by reputable :dry: porn sites. Many of the censored terms aren't necessarily "illegal" in any sense. Some porn sites censor variations of terms like "forced" or anything that crosses the blood-borne pathogens line. If you are in an industrial setting, you've probably received training on this latter subject. Another one is "breath control," which despite the search results can be found on several porn sites I'm aware of. The sites most likely want to avoid things unduly dangerous or which have ambiguous consent. The way the results are moderated is to remove the terms from the search lexicon database. Videos with these themes aren't necessarily removed.

    So therefore I surely doubt you're "alone" in your interests.
     
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    I like women's feet. Also I would love to be dominated by either a strong woman or a group of guys. Also I think crossdressing is hot even though I've never did it. Also I love getting choked. I sometimes make out with my pillow when I'm alone.
     
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    Cute feet, latex, lingerie, some types of roleplay, women with very developed labia minora, intact guys with a long foreskin, and sharing sexual secretions in a kiss. Hope not to much but you asked.