So, as we are all aware, sex ed for us LGBTQIA folks is hard to come by beyond the realm of porn, which is a poor way to teach anyone about sex in general. It's really bad for us ladies not knowing what the hell we're doing with women. Not that I am now, but when I do become sexually active, I want to know what's up and how it all works without having to watch porn usually geared towards straight men. I know all about safe sex and dental dams and all, but does anyone have any good resources they recommend to really learn what to do when the situation arises? It's time for thats birds and the bees talk again y'all!
Well, Assuming you are old enough, the best place to start no matter what your gender, orientation, status, etc, is to explore your body yourself before you share it with anyone else. if you are an adult, go to the toy store, get some items that interest you and try them out yourself. find what makes your body respond in the best way for you. next, being open with your mother, or an aunt, or any other female adult in your life, is the best thing any girl can do for herself. treading the sexual waters alone without adult guidance (that is trustworthy) can be dangerous and scary, and do more harm than good. good luck honey. if you have any specific questions let me know. Im not personally experienced in lesbian sex, but i am grown enough to know pretty damn close to everything
Porn isn't a good way to learn about sex anyway, it's based solely on what's visually pleasing. Planned Parenthood has some good resources.
