When I masturbate, alone, in my room. Often I can just cum, with a little effort... However when it's sex. never. I've done every vile disgusting thing there is as well as every loving thing there is and i've had sex a ton of times. But I have never in my life achieved orgasm from sex, I used to even be unable to cum with another person in the room. I'm getting worried, I used to just accept it and shift my focus onto pleasing my partner... but nowadays, I'm getting less and less interested in sex. to the point that seeing a muscular guy pound another guy in porn really doesn't turn me on anymore. Porn and sex just seem pointless. I've turned down guys who wanted to come over, but when I explained that sex was probably not going to happen because I never cum anyway, they thought it best to not hang out at all, because they were just going to get horny... I'm losing friends... all they want is to fuck me, but aren't interested in me in any other way... I can't date, nobody wants to just hang out and get to know eachother. nobody wants anything serious from me. everyone wants to dine and dash... It's not that sex isn't fun at all... bj's are nice, sometimes getting fucked in the ass is nice. having my dick in another guy is nice too. I love being naked with a guy and make out and play with eachother... it's just that I never ever climax, it's all good fun but it's not THAT fun. it's never hot enough to actually make me cum. a couple of times i've definitely felt like I should just give up boys entirely and just be alone for the rest of my life. Am I the only one? what do I do?:bang:
I totally relate, I don't know what it's about. However I don't have answers. I find I have to tense my legs normally.
Personally I love to cuddle and kiss my BF and enjoy the closeness more than orgasm. When I feel close to him after cuddling and making out things progress to a point where I want to cum. I need more foreplay than many guys, and I'm wondering if you're in a similar place. Your age and experience could also be a factor. If you are older then a lower sex drive is a natural consequence. If you are younger then perhaps you are still getting comfortable with your sexuality. Frequency is also a factor, so if you jerk off too close to your encounters perhaps some libido is lost.
something is making u cum that cant be found in guys u have sex with and if you do want to give up on guys nobody is stopping you
