Me and my girlfriend (both f16 obviously haha) have been together for 2 years and have gotten close to sex but never actually got there. We have been talking and decided that we are ready for sex. It's not wrong to have sex at 16 if we are both ready right? Are dental dams necessary? How do we start? Thanks <3
Always perform safe sex. (You can make a dental dam easily by getting a condom and cutting it ) It's not that uncommon for that age. If you feel like this is the right choice then act it out. You could slowly start out by making out...Foreplay is very important for females. So get her in the mood. Go out to the movies or make dinner slowly work up to the actual moment. If you are wondering how to perform oral sex. You could get advice online or get a book on the "art of cunnilingus"
Always use protection. Like the previous poster said, foreplay is definitely a must and so is communication. Although it's your first time together, there's nothing wrong with asking what her preferences are and telling her what you want. Just go slow and take your time.