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Orgasms and sexual stimulation causing painful cramps (female)

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Creativemind, Dec 29, 2016.

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  1. Creativemind

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    So, I'm still a virgin with no experience of being with other people. However, whenever I masturbate, I feel painful stomach cramps that feel near identical to period cramps. I know I'm not actually on my period though.

    You can feel a slight pleasurable sensation before hand, but orgasm is miserable and painful. It really feels like being stabbed down near the stomach area. I don't feel this pain anywhere else during the day, and I also don't feel any pain during sexual stimulation. Only near the end of my session.

    I don't please myself very often anymore since I no longer find it enjoyable. I've never slept with anyone but I'm worried the same thing will happen.

    Looking for advice.
     
    #1 Creativemind, Dec 29, 2016
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    Hi,

    It's not uncommon for people to have painful orgasms. And the only reason I know this is because my family is TMI, and one of my relatives who was up there in age (after menopause) was telling a TMI story that ended in a painful orgasm.

    I don't think you are in the menopause stage yet based on your age, but do you have PCOS or endometriosis? Those can also cause painful orgasms.

    If it's bothering you, I would recommend speaking to a gyno. They can rule out any medical reasons.
     
    #2 Sawyer, Dec 29, 2016
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    Thanks for the reply.

    I know It's not menopause as I'm in my 20's and can still menstruate. It's been a problem ever since I hit puberty.

    I'm not sure if I have the other conditions. I suppose I can go check them out.
     
    #3 Creativemind, Dec 30, 2016
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    Hi Creativemind:

    Sorry to hear you're having this problem.

    There are lots of things that this could be attributed to, so I think it's important that you see a physician about it.

    The female reproductive tract is very prone to growing extra bits and pieces (almost all benign) that can interfere with its proper functioning. I have and have had lots of different things appear there (cysts/polyps/fibroids) some of which created symptoms and some which didn't.

    Doctors have seen/heard everything and most physicians spend almost 50% of their days dealing with reproductive health so talking about masturbation or orgasm shouldn't be a problem, but if you are reluctant to speak with your family doctor, there may be a sexual health clinic in your centre where you would feel more comfortable.

    I encourage you to get it checked.

    Cheers.

    (*hug*)
     
    #4 wickedwitch, Jan 3, 2017
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