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Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by DreamonRose, Feb 24, 2017.

  1. DreamonRose

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    Soooo I am attracted to girls like everything a girl can offer and male genitalia does not fascinate me but for some reason I find two men together waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more attractive or interesting than a woman and woman or a man and a woman so what does that mean. Because hetero anything is unappealing and even tho I am young I have watched porn and when I first watched it I only watched lesbian porn but now I cant sit through a minute of it. I have a strange attraction to gay guys also, like I would want to be with one. Is that because some are feminine or what?..I dont why I am thinking about this so young but I have been exposed to too much already.
     
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    I feel like i'm being bothersome always replying like this. Lemme know if i'm being a broken record cause i kinda feel like i am.

    I think questioning it all when you're younger is a good thing. I would have preferred it if i had it that way, anyways. Its okay to be confused. Maybe it'll help you figure yourself out. Okay so lemme get this straight. Sexually, you're attracted to women and men aren't appealing like that. But romantically, you are attracted to guys? Could you see yourself dating either a guy or a girl?

    On the porn, i watch lesbian porn too. But the acting's gotta be good - if it comes off as too fake then its a total turn off. Do you find all sorts of lesbian porn to be dissatisfying? Haha yes finally somebody else whose liked gay guy porn. I was into that before i discovered lesbian porn and i admit i did like it. On a rare occasion i do like it nowadays, but its gotta be a certain type. Real fit guys are a total turn off, they've gotta be young and pretty, and if its silent its boring. God i'm too picky. Sorry for the TMI. :icon_redf
     
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    I love all your replies sooo much especially this one I can relateeee. I want to marry a women but I find only gay guys attractive never straight. Romantically I am attracted to gay men and women but physically women. And OMGG I hate the fake stuff like she barely touched you what are you screaming for. And I am kinda into the hardcore stuff but only sometimes. And Yess I hate when the are going at it and I am here thinking my volume is broken like make some noise. I think the bottom should always be making noise because someone is inside you like whatt.
     
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    I say be as open minded as possible which it seems you are. porn can be an indicator, I watch both straight and gay porn but never female on female unless it is some sort of wrestling involved haha. Anyway it is absolutely normal to be questioning your sexual orientation and you should embrace it. As far as the marraige thing, more focus on being in a relationship with. This is someone who understands you and you can have fun with, as well as physical attraction so relationships become marraige (not to certain how to spell it but sense I am an engineer I dont care I got math!). Anyways porn can be an indicator but not all of the time, do what you enjoy and date who you like and dont focus on whether that is a man or a woman. I tried to identify myself and being bisexual it was SUPER difficult. If I could give advice to my younger self it would be just that. Enjoy yourself and those around you and date whoever you like and find attractive. A few years down the road you will be able to figure it out, or not. Some don't figure it out until they are way down the road.
     
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    Thanks I guess I should just wait and see what happens when I actually start dating.
     
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    It sounds to me like you could have a fluid sexuality. Sexuality for a lot of people can be fluid and complicated. You don't have to figure out your sexuality today. It takes time. Just take it one day at a time. Eventually, you'll reach a point in which you'll figure it out.

    I wish you luck.
     
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    I used to be like that, before when i was like 15, i accidentally stumbled onto a gay porn website, and i really liked watching it. So i kept watching it for months on end, and that pretty much what made me get a sex change.
     
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    tbh, i watch either lesbian or gay porn beacause I feel that nothing is cherished in straight, its as if they just do it becayse theres a camera and they're opposite genders. Gays have to take time finding partners and they're alot more picky so there feels a actual sense of love for each other