After many years questioning if I am gay/bi. I have recently started sticking a finger up my bum. I have to say I have quite enjoyed it and like the way it seems to open up. Has anyone got an tips about doing it safely and how I could improve it.
I helps to be relaxed, like during or after a hot shower. Some would suggest using lube, as well as a condom, for sanitary reasons. Of course, don't use something that wasn't meant for that, like a vegetable or a candlestick. Hmm, start slow and small. I mean do so regularly, and over time, you should get more comfortable with the sensation and maybe "increase" the size of whatever you're using, if that's the road you want to go down. Oh, and an empty stomach, so you don't have any "accidents". Douching isn't mandatory, but some prefer to. I've never done so, personally, but I'm a bit of a neat freak, anyway. Otherwise, experiment! Just because something feels good for someone else doesn't mean it will for you. Plus, you'll know yourself and can advise any future partners.