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Fingering Stuff

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Koethe, Mar 18, 2017.

  1. Koethe

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    Well, my first time fingering myself was (literally) yesterday, it was kinda awkward and strange, specially with that fear of my finger getting... welp, you know, messy

    I did it again today in the shower, before it, I saw some tips here on Empty Closets, like ¨Use hot water to relax, besides, the water its a great lube¨ It was kinda better this time, but the point is that I am pretty tight, I just got 1/3 of my finger inside (the small finger :,v), it was kinda a good feeling tho.

    Any recomendations to get it more in? I cant buy lube or have sex toys, I only have home stuff. Any positions to have more space? I didn´t found any information about that... Also, in the hipotetical situation in wich I reach the prostate, what do I do? Rub it with my finger?

    Thanks for reading! And sorry if my english is pretty bad, I am not pretty good at it ;_;
     
  2. I have a friend who mentioned using vaseline, and another recommended water based lotion. If you have a detachable showerhead, that can be good to clean up if you're worried about it getting messy.

    I would also recommend, if you can, putting a condom on your finger(s) if you can't clean out first to prevent any kind of bacteria getting into any cuts you might have on your fingers.
     
  3. actualdust

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    Just gotta add, water based lotions and lube will definitely be better than vaseline. It's a good habit anyways, since vaseline and oil based lubes can frick up condoms.