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Decreased sensitivity during sex

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by mikey34, Apr 8, 2017.

  1. mikey34

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    Please take this serious getting depressed about it. I cant seem to cum when i am with a guy. I feel very self concious about it. When i get jerked off by him though it feels amazing. Now I know I have a problem with porn and jacking off. I do it at least three a day. I always cum when i jack off . However when having sex I dont feel anything . How do I get back that feeling.
     
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    Consider dropping the porn. You most likely have been desensitized from watching too much and your brain has become used to the porn as a sexual stimulus.

    Try going two weeks without watching porn and without masturbating. Challange yourself to do this and my bet is you will regain your sexual sensitivities.
     
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    Exactly what OTH said.:thumbsup: