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How to eat a girl out?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Cutiepop, Apr 18, 2017.

  1. Cutiepop

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    I'm having sex with my girlfriend the first time Thursday. I've never given oral before and want some pointers on how to do it right? I know all girls like different things but can anyone give me some universal pointers?

    Thanks :slight_smile:
     
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    Same situation. Good luck :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    There's really no surefire way to do it but in my experience:

    -Alternate the speed and pressure to which you apply your tongue

    -Try and switch up the patterns you make i.e. swirls, vertical/horizontal strokes etc. One thing I do is write the alphabet with my tongue and that seems to do the trick :lol:

    -Find the clitoris. This is the main area you want to focus your attention on.

    -A little nibble can work but it's really sensitive down there so don't bite.

    Yeah that's all I have to offer lmao
     
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    I always start with one big lap. Then focus and flick my tongue over the clit. Occasionally suck on it, my girlfriend enjoys pressure on her clit. And usually I will lick around her vaginal hole itself and that, she realllyyy enjoys because that is also sensitive. She sometimes sticks her tongue in my vagina and that feels good although that requires a long tongue fir the most part. Don't suffocate yourself done there. I know it's exciting but remember your nose might be blocked for a bit. You could also give some loving to her clit while you use your fingers for her vagina although that is difficult for me to do at least.
    Have fun !!!!!
     
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    And this:

    That about covers it all from my experience giving oral. Best advice I have on giving is just to be patient and do all the things these two have said. Also, pay attention to how she reacts. If what you are doing is feeling good to she will definitely let you know and the juices will really get flowing :icon_twis

    One of the best feelings I've ever had is getting my S.O. off with my tongue and/or fingers lol :icon_redf
     
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    from my experience it pays to take ur time, take things slow and get her going. Kiss around her private area at first and her inner thighs. I have heard the alpthabet idea is good :slight_smile:
     
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