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never had the big o with a woman

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by just jane, May 18, 2017.

  1. just jane

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    is there any woman here had the big o moment with a woman?
     
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    I've only experienced it a couple of times despite being fairly active when I was younger. I was faking it before I even knew what it was.

    I think for me the issues were mainly lack of communication and no real connection (which meant I felt some anxiety and couldn't truly relax/be fully present). As a result I'm not really fussed about sex any more.
     
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    Yup. Lots. And lots. Lol

    It takes self confidence, trust, and practice. Lots of practice. And lots...

    Here if you have any questions :slight_smile: