Virginity

It depends on the person; I personally feel that it's not special, but should be saved.

 

Special? I mean it is a special thing but I would treasure more making love to someone I love than just losing it! Its more special that way!

 

I wouldn't consider taking someone else's special but I do consider giving up mine as very very special. - That makes me sound a bit up myself and self obsessed.

 

I kind of agree with what you are saying. It's not just something that you let anyone take :eusa_naug lol

 

Well I think taking someone's virginity is special because they care about you and trust you enough to take their virginity.

 

I wouldnt want to take someones virginity. I would rather have it handed to me as a gift we can both share :c)

 

couldnt agree more:eusa_clap but i would think that taking someone elses would b cool. theyd remember u forever

 

I think when the time is right it just kinda happens, both the first woman and first guy I slept with weren't anything special, and I was quite drunk, but I don't really regret it, generally the first time is a bit rubbish anyway so I kinda think it's handy to get it out of the way so you're more chilled out when it's with someone you like

 

This.

I think that virginity, like many things, can only have the amount of importance that we give it. I see my first time as a big deal simply because we judge all of our experiences by the first such experience we have, so each time I think about sex, I will somehow thing about that first time. Thus I want it to be special, to be something I can remember fondly; not perfect by any means, or even great; just something I can look back upon with joy, not resentment. As long as it's with a good guy and we don't force it, then I will remember it as a good thing, I'm sure.

It has happened to me before. Porn is like sex; if you push your limits, you will be uncomfortable, as you should be. And just like sex, there is no reason to feel guilty about not enjoying something that goes beyond your comfort zone, nor should you force yourself to try to enjoy it. Just watch something less graphic. You do yourself no favors by watching porn you don't enjoy.

 

Losing my own virginity wasn't that big a deal. But being somebody else's first I would consider to be an honor.

Yes, it's the same place po(o)p comes out. And your dick is where pee comes out.

Lex

 

Losing my virginity wasn't really a good experience... and the guy turned out to be a real jerk. About taking someone else's... well.. I thought it would be special... It wasn't really that different... except we cared about each other... and we both had a good time... so...

 

I'd only take it we both truly cared for one another....I'm not one to rush into things. I would need to feel a deep connection. I haven't even lost my own yet - still waiting. I'm not just going to give it up for anybody.

 

I think it depends on the ppl involved and the sitution. Nothing worse then giving away your treasure to someone who isnt worth it or vice versa. Once you give it up you cant give it back.
Im still waiting for that someone.