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Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by ppreston9, Aug 2, 2007.

  1. ppreston9

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    Me and my friend will ocassionally have sex. we do it all. but i am always the bottom.
    i have never felt anything good about it. his dick isnt small. just average. any techniques for my benefit?
     
  2. CrimsonThunder

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    For some people its just not their thing.
     
  3. Kimi

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    How about lots of lube? Of course, water based one:icon_wink
     
  4. downboyup

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    dunno.... not your thing....? get him on back, and you get on top. try being more in control, pace your movement with slowly pulling yourself off.

    feel like i've said too much............
     
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    lol - yes, a rather delicate subject... so, um...

    Lots of lube for sure, but lots of foreplay as well. Going slow, and taking your time to get to that point of the action might help get you 'primed' (i.e. turned on) enought that you're ready to really enjoy it.

    This is perhaps easier said than done for a 15 yo...

    Then again, it may just not be your thing.
     
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    yea...very delicate indeed
     
  7. Kimi

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    I heard that missionary position is good for both......

    Hmm...this subject requires so much regard:icon_roll
     
  8. ppreston9

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    i posted this and i am just wondering if its inappropiate?
     
  9. CrimsonThunder

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    No because you're asking a common question that teens at you're age ask.
     
  10. ppreston9

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    k thanks,
    but, my anal intercourse doesnt hurt me at all but i just want to increase enjoyment.
    would me jacking off help.
    or him going faster. or maybe deep penetration?
     
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    You jacking off would help with the pleausre but it wouldnt help the anal, I recon. If the guy thats doing you isn't hitting your g-spot then he needs to move around abit.
     
  12. Kimi

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    It's perfectly fine question with me but some people might find this thread or some post in here bit too much or inappropriate. So I just didn't want to post too much that's all. So I'm sorry if I made you worry.

    Just try different positions and speeds.
    And I think jerking off while getting :***: will help too.

    :icon_wink
     
  13. downboyup

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    if inappropriate a moderator will yank the post or thread. dont worry - we all think different things at different times. it is good to be able to speak your mind, and get some feedback.

    at your age and earlier i couldnt care less about anal sex. when on receiving end - it wasn't for me, it was for him, and i used to just wait and then swap around. there was waiting involved - not passion. bjs were boring and went on forever with no end result at all. it was all about friction to me, and my boyfriend and i just used to move while lie on top of each other mostly. kissing was of little interest too.

    a few years on, and being with older and more mature men and some 'teachers' i found enjoyment got more varied - and then I went overboard. not recommended.

    also perhaps what you have fantasized about will give you a clue to what you will be into sexually and then stick to that.

    perhaps others have had similar?
     
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    This thread is being watched but it's OK at the moment. Just keep the detail to the minimum needed and it'll be fine.
     
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    While you and your friend are going at it...

    Have him reach around and give you a hand job... or you jack off while he is screwing you...

    Different positions make it interesting as well... all depends on what all you two are willing to try and such.
     
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    for some people, its just not what they enjoy. explore with your friend to find things that are more pleasurable to you. and maybe do what crimson said and have your friend find your prostate. im pretty sure that could help.