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Masturbation.. Thoughts????

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Justindee13, Nov 17, 2009.

  1. Justindee13

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    So i feel very embrassed that i have to tell this but im not sure. So i masturbate every nite or every other nite. I feel like i have a problem but im not usre. Im a virgin, On the same side i feel its just to pass the time cause im bored. Idk i wanted to know other peoples thoughts or actions on the subject.
     
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    You're normal. Masturbating is totally fine, totally normal, and just about everybody does it - it only becomes an issue if you do it so much it gets painul, gets boring, or gets in the way of the rest of your life. Once a day, or even more than that, is totally all right.
     
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    If you feel like you have a problem, then that is where the problem lies. Don't look so much at the action, but how the action makes you feel. Your frequency is hardly at the level I would consider to be chronic.

    Keep in mind masturbation is a perfectly normal way of interacting with your own body. It's no different than twiddling your thumbs, except not everyone twiddles their thumbs. (also, you can twiddle your thumbs at the dinner table) If you're still enjoying yourself, then there is no problem.
     
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    Dude that's normal! :slight_smile:
     
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    Yeah, dude, every night? You're 15? EVERY GUY who's 15 masturbates that much. It is VERY normal. I'd be more worried if you weren't masturbating.

    Plus it's a hell of a lot less messy when it isn't sneaking up on you in your sleep.
     
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    Lol, when I read the title of this thread (Masturbation.. Thoughts????) I immediately said to myself "Ooh, good idea!" :lol:
     
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    Masturbation is completely normal and healthy. Like everybody has already said, as long as it's not so frequent that it hurts or becomes completely disruptive to your life, you're perfectly fine. Hey, I usually do it about once a day. Plus, it's a completely safe way to explore your fantasies. :slight_smile:
     
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    You're 15, chill out! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    (It's perfectly normal for 15 year olds)
     
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    Hell, it's perfectly normal for 30 year olds to masturbate that much too.

    Seriously, every night is pretty tame. When I was that age, I probably masturbated twice as much and if I'm especially frustrated, I'd probably masturbate twice a day these days too.
     
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    Also, it's a great way to help you get to sleep!
     
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    at my worst, in my puberty??? i've probably done it more than 5 or 6 times in one day before. Possibly more.
     
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    Masturbation feels good for everyone.
    Therefore, every sane person masturbates.
    And those who do not masturbate are missing out.

    :slight_smile:
     
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    So, you are a 15 years old guy and you masturbate every night ?
    That means one thing to me : you are completly normal and healthy.
    As some other posters already said, masturbation becomes an issue when it interferes with your life and/or you do it so much it hurts.
    So don't worry, you are a prefectly average young man.
     
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    lol, i've done it so much it hurts before!!!

    but it's been many years since those days hahah =)
     
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    I quite agree!
     
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    Ouch. I've been there. I think it involved discovering a porno VHS tape for the first time. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    you are 15! i was like that too when i was that age............. actually, it is still happening now. hehe.

    but in all seriousness, like the previous post said, it is bad if it is interfering with your life
     
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    Totally normal unless it interferes with your life.
     
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    I guess It's normal except I always feel REALLY bad at myself when I do it and It just seems sinful (yeah Christian and gay I know) I don't know why, I mean I haven't heard of anything in the bible that's against it. I'm really struggling with that flipping book.