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Penis size

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by travelinsoul21, Apr 19, 2010.

  1. What is actually considered normal size? Has anyone ever actually seen anything that works for penis enlargement? And another, really awkward question, why does my penis almost always retract into my body?
     
  2. mattypants

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    dunno about the going into body thingy... /waits for chip for good answer

    i hear normal size, re:average , is like 5-6 inches
     
  3. I know its a weird, awkward, extremely personal question, so I apologize for that!
     
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    i dont think its too weird... then again, i didnt have to make the thread :grin:
    and the size question has come up ALOT ^_^
     
  5. Well it was awkward for me to write it down
     
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    I can understand the awkwardness in asking this question, personally I would have posted it anonymously. But since you were brave enough I might as well add that the same thing happens to me (retraction-wise). I'm more concerned about the size of my testicles though, which also tend to retract.

    Now that I have described my genitals (how's that for a first post) I might nip over to the introduction forum and introduce myself!
     
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    KB is the one qualified to really answer this from a physiology perspective, but i think *everybody* has shrinkage (the retracting into your body) at times. I swear it gets more noticeable as you get older (like 40s older) too :slight_smile:

    And thanks to porn, we all think that the average penis size is 7 or 8 inches, but it's not at all; more like 4.5 to 5.5 inches, depending on whose data you're looking at.

    There are NO penis enlargement products that work. The closest to real are the contraptions that you stick your dick into and pump like a vacuum but (a) the effect is temporary and (b) it isn't very safe.

    I understand intellectually why people think that penis size is such a big deal but, honestly, intuitively, it makes no sense at all. It's really no different than having big or small hands, big or small feet, or anything else.

    And honestly, anybody that is only interested in going out with guys that have big schlongs is NOT somebody I'd be interested in dating; that sort of shallowness rarely leads to meaningful, long-lasting relationships.
     
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    Check out the Penis thread- it has a lot of answers to commonly asked questions.
     
  9. Thanks everyone. Along with everything else I've been accepting lately, my penis is something i've accepted too, but I thought I would ask. Thanks!
     
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    Shrinkage seems to happen more when you're overweight, too. So if you've gained some pounds, you might try losing a few to see if that helps.

    Lex
     
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    So what about average penis circumference? That may matter even more than does length. :grin: Right?
     
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    I've read 4- 6 inches is normal.
    Is it cold? your penis will retreat like a frightened turtle if its cold, or from his bouncing around in your pants all day, it happens.
     
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    The average range for circumference in adult males is 4.5-5.5 inches, with the median being around 5 inches.
     
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    My friend said it best, though. "If it's vaguely tube shaped, and it jumps to attention when I play with it, it's automatically the right size." :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    it also has to produce a prize if played with enough right? :rolle:
     
  16. Well it works well enough. Just don't feel like its the right size. But i'm stuck with it sooo...
     
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    If it works, it's the right size.

    I'm assuming it's true that, given two guys where everything else is equal, a gay guy would probably pick the one with the bigger dick. But the key bit there is "everything else is equal", because it never is. A big dick is fine, but a big dick is insufficient. The best guy I ever had sex with was smaller than average. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
  18. I just hope I can find a guy who realizes that. I won't settle for 2nd best, that's all that really matters...
     
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    It's not the size of the wave but the motion of the ocean ya digg?