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Safe Lesbian Sex?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by bookworm43, Jul 1, 2011.

  1. bookworm43

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    I'm just gonna be blunt and jump right into it. They give you all those safe sex lectures at school; how to not get pregnant, how to not get an STD, etc. But they don't talk about gay sex, which sucks, because that results in a lot of ignorance. So. I need all of you older/smarter ECers to tell me about it. How does safe sex work? How would a condom or other protective gear work itself in there? And is there really a such thing as a condom for girls? Please, just tell me all you know. I don't even have a girlfriend, so sex isn't exactly in the ballpark, but it's still important to be informed. And if you know any websites that talk about this kind of thing, please share. I really appreciate any information given! :thumbsup:
     
  2. Eponine

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    Hey, here is a link to the section in our resources for lesbian sex. I'd say it's a great point to start at, and then you can ask any specific questions you have that are not addressed there or anywhere in our resources.

    We have a great amount of info in our resources section, so be sure to check it out.
     
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    i really don't understand how lesbian sex can be unsafe...if no one has any STI's what's unsafe? xD
     
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    that is worrying. They certainly taught us all about the safety aspects of gay and straight sex

    ---------- Post added 2nd Jul 2011 at 07:09 PM ----------

    that's just the point, someone might.
     
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    I've actually done a little reading because I was curious about this & it is actually very important to have safe sex when you're with female partners. The Resources tab on this site will send you to a page with a link to a page with LOTS of good advice of how to have safe lesbian sex. A little of it I did know, but there was a lot I didn't, so I was very glad to have found it all! You should find it helpful too!

    Edit: Someone already posted a link to the page here, so just ignore me, I'm being blond again!
     
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    In the US, you'd be fortunate if the school even told you about condoms.
     
  7. bookworm43

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    Like heck they'd even ADMIT that there are some gay students in our school. Nope, no helpful talks for us...which is why it's awesome that this site is so helpful. I didn't know there was a page about this here lol