Hand jobs

Nah, unless any...urm...fluids go near your vagina then it's perfectly safe to give a hand job without a condom. always use condoms when having intercourse however.

 

I don't see how you'd be able to get anything unless you had open cuts on your hands or something. I wouldn't . . .

 

Try giving a handjob to a guy wearing a condom and see how much he enjoys it, the condom makes it so you can hardly feel anything. Hence why lots of people have sex without condoms even due to the risks involved.

I've never used a thin condom though, honestly I think they would break too easily but I've never done research.

 

OK a question.........why would a 16 year old lesbian give a guy hand job? He's got two, tell him to do it himself. I can't imagine you enjoying it all that much.

 

It says shes undecisive. And maybe she just wants to know/someone asked her.

 

:lol:

 

i wouldnt use a condom. i probably wouldnt use a condom until the actual sexual intercourse. i think hand job and blow job are pretty safe.

 

Handjob is 100% safe unless you have a cut. Blowjobs arent 100% safe because you can get cum in your mouth.

 

Just think about his sperm swimming around in your mouth:eek: :roflmao:

Anyways, well, if he doesn't mind you ask him to wear it then why not to?

 

Oh my god, Becky... that's classic! :lol:

 

Personally I think that's bullshit... I've had sex with condoms a fair amount and it DEFINITELY doesn't feel like nothing.

I mean, yes, sure, I'm sure it's different but I don't think that difference is worth the risk. Not using condoms for sex because it doesn't feel "as good" is taking hedonism to ridiculous extremes.

Plus polyurethane condoms conduct heat, whereas regular latex ones don't, and I'm betting that makes up for a lot of the difference.

 

Joey is right. It's not worth the risk. Everyone here, if sexually active, should be practicing safe sex and you should have regular HIV tests. I mean it. :eusa_naug

I am happy the question was asked. We have to keep this forum safe for young people. It's important to ask if you don't know something about safe sex so that somebody can help you with the answer. Ask before you try and be safe!

 

ALWYS Be Safe!!!!!

 

Instructions for giving a good handjob:

1. Use your mouth.




But in all seriousness, no need for a condom if you're just giving a hand job.

 

Its already been proven that you may need to use a condom...

 

Yea I agree It's not worth the risk! anyway this may sound stupid but do we really need regular HIV tests, I mean the frequency that we would need it would b circumstantial. I mean what if it was just one partner for a time, and how many straight ppl shuld be regularly tested. I think I need more info. just cause there's no point getting tested regularly if its one partner and u have one test that says neither of you have HIV. should u?

 

From my point of view if you are sexually active but not in a steady, exclusive relationship then once every three months should be about right. More than that and you are going to become obsessed by it. Make sure you always have safe sex even hand or blow jobs if you have cuts or sores on your hands or in your mouth or anywhere where sperm might 'land' that will already take some of the worry out of it.

If however you are in a stable, exclusive relationship once a year should do it. You may believe your partner to be 100% exclusive but there is no point taking it as read! Extra 'marital' affairs can happen to any and everyone at any time, none of us are perfect, have the perfect husband/wife/partner so to be on the safe side.

I think regular checks are always wise. If nothing else it will put your mind at rest and be able to reassure prospective partners. Just don't get blasé and forget your condoms :icon_bigg

Hope that helps a bit.

 

Here is a link to a FDA approved home test kit:

http://www.homeaccess.com/