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Haircut anxiety.

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by KatoKumi, Jan 23, 2008.

  1. KatoKumi

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    Every time I'm going to go get a haircut, I get some weird anxiety or panic attack, but it seems so unnecessary. It's like getting a panic attack when you go to the bathroom or something.

    Is it normal for your mind to function to the point it'll have an anxiety attack just because you have a slight aversion to something?

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    Yeah.. I always freak out when I go to get a haircut.. I'm so worried that they're going to mess up or something and I start freaking out. x_x
     
  3. Perrygay

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    I buzz my hair by myself. Personally, I couldn't let anyone else cut my hair.
     
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    I do the same. I mean, cut my own hair. I freak out with barbers, for some reason people who cut hair for a living... hmm, can't put my finger on the feeling... However, coinceditally, my mom told me she hated my sideburns about a few hours ago, and she made me shave them off.
    I miss them :frowning2:
     
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    I'm not worried about people cutting my hair wrong.

    I freak out about them wanting to stab me.
     
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    I can live going to a hairdresser. I mean I don't have major panic attacks, but I am always kind of worried they're going to cut off my ear.
     
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    I don't have panic it's kinda cool, cuz i like getting a haircut lol. But when i was younger i was always scared and I used to cry because once this barber left me completely bald and i was sooo pissed. So i was scared if they would cut me the wrong way or something. And then another time i got a bowl cut =( was not cool
     
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    I let my hair grow really long last year.Long enough to put into a pony tail.Then I cut it myself and it looked like crap.Last week I went to a real barber and it looks and feels great.
    But whenever I'm sitting in the chair I flash on the barber driving those long pointy scissors into my eardrum.Sometimes I have to hold onto the chair to not run out.
     
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    My brother gets panic attacks at random places sometimes. He's in college now though, but he takes stuff for it. I think it's pretty easy to get perscribed by a doctor. Xanax.
     
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    A couple of suggestions:

    Can you try to find a hairdresser you trust, then stick with him/her? Would you feel more comfortable with a male or female, younger or older? If you feel more comfortable with the hairdresser and always use the same one then that could help.

    What about taking a friend with you. Would having someone on "your side" help? What about a hairdresser that visits your home rather than you having to go to them?
     
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    My parents own and work out of a hair studio, and growing up in a salon I guarantee that the chances of getting your ear cut off by a professional is nearly zero. Worst I have seen is the stylist nip the tip of their finger off.
     
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    I don't get haircuts anymore, I just trim my hair when it looks long-ish, or let my sister do it (and they don't know I'm gay?!?!?!) :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I get random anxieties sometimes .. i get it at the barbers i always smoked before i went in .. but now i quitted so.. gonna have to just leave it and go in, i even had a random anxiety in the bathroom --___--
     
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    Well, my parents does not own a hair studio but I would like to say the chances are zero.

    I hope I don't sound mean or harsh...but why would you feel that way?
    If I get worry about my hair stylist gonna cut off my ear, I don't think I can eat anything at restaurant:icon_sad:
     
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    put up a picture once you get it cut! :slight_smile:
     
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    Yeah i feel little bti stree cuz im afraid that they may cut into my ear, it happened twice, bleeded little bti and i got mad once,a nd soemtime sim afraid they gonna mess up my hair cuz i think it's important
     
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    When I had my hair cut by a hairdresser it always seemed to take a few days to settle before it looked right. The same applies now I do it myself with clippers, but not so much as it's shorter and thinner. If I want my hair to look its best for a specific event though I will trim it or get it trimmed about a week before to give it time to settle.
     
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    ummmmm your hair is super sexy.