So I had a post about this in the anonymous section a while ago but I need more tips/advice. I have been doing it for a while now, I have tried the shower head thing, sort of worked but I will need to try it differently, I have an electric toothbrush, but mostly I just use my fingers. Most of the time I will watch some porn, I have tried turning out the lights, lighting candles, I have done the thing where you look at your area with a mirror. But I have not been able to orgasm yet. I get wet pretty quickly and everything, and I feel myself getting really close, but then it just goes away, and I can't get back to that feeling. Any advice or tips?
Vibrator. It worked for my friend who couldn't orgasm. I don't have your anatomy so obviously my advice is limited to one single anecdote i'm sorry!
I suggest a vibrator, too. I used my fingers and the shower head for years and both worked well for me. However, I just recently moved out on my own for the first time (finally at the age of 30!!!!) and one of the first things I did was get online and order sex toys. I was so excited to finally do that!! I know I could have bought them sooner, but I always felt uncomfortalbe with that in my parents house (I just had a hang-up about that). Anyway, I had used toys before with partners, but never alone. The experiences I've had with them has been AMAZING. I have had the BEST orgasms I've ever had before!!!
I agree with posts above but Also try to relax if u keep thinking about trying to orgasm u are probably gonna find it hard too.
Are you certain that what you live at the end isn't an orgasm? With your description it reminds me of when I started masturbating (won't tell you the age at which I started... enough to say I was quite young) at it got better and better with the years of practice. The orgasms, their intensity, their variety and their number got better with practice. An orgasm is a peek of pleasurable sensation that decreases afterwards to relaxation. The first times that peek might not be very high, if even noticeable at all (for a girl). I think you're on the right path with your strategies if you get wet and pleasured, like you said. I suggest you only persevere in the methods you chose to try and try more, like the vibrator.
