Sexual Dreams: Why do they happen so rarely in my case?

For what it's worth, I consider myself to have a fairly high (or average, at least) sex drive, and I think I've had maybe 1 sexual dream in my lifetime. Granted it was really good, but it's not something I've experienced much.

Or maybe we're both just anomalies in this case...

 

Stop masturbating and you'll have them.

Wet dreams are the body's natural response to excess semen. It's a nocturnal emission so that new sperm can be produced.

If the body never needs to eject the semen due to no excess, they won't occur.

All the best.

 

There isn't always emission when a wet dream occurs, although usually there is.

If you had masturbated then it was probably just a vivid dream, but if you do wish to experience wet dreams more frequently then quitting masturbating will definitely cause them to happen.

Although personally I don't think it's worth it, lol.

 

Sexual repression. It works for me anyway and I have alot more sex dreams than on average. (sometimes days in a row) xD

 

However, we have to remember that 'wet dreams' being automatically connected to sexual dreams or drive is a myth. It could only slightly raise the probability of having a sexual themed dream, in that if your body did have a surplus of semen than you most likely wouldnt have had any sexual contact in a while, thus you would probably be more "horny". Otherwise the likelihood isnt any greater.

Anyway, I am just like you. Though I might not count because my dreams are generally very boring or just non-existant lol.

 

Interesting. I don't have them ever either. I can count the number I've had in my entire life on one hand, and I have a high sex drive, especially for a female.

Like Gen, I simply never have dreams that make sense most of the time. If I dream, I usually don't remember it. On the rare occasion I remember it, it's total nonsense. In fact, the only dreams that have ever stuck out to me are the rare ones where I knew the people in them (maybe once or twice in my life) or the ones where I get killed in some way (used to happen often enough when I was a teen, not so much now).

 

Lol, indeed.

They are rare when it comes to being spontaneous, but when you lucid dream a few times a month you can do whatever you want in them.

I'd suggest keeping a dream journal, this will increase you ability to recall dreams, and also give you the knowledge to recognise yourself as dreaming. I can give you some links to Lucid Dreaming how-to guides if you'd like. It took me awhile to start having them, almost a year, but it has paid off. Who needs powerful hallucinogens when you can do whatever you want in a dream?

 

everyone dreams differently.

I haven't had a nightmere in years, but I know people who have 1-2 a week.

it doesnt really mean anything, because everyone is different.

 

Mine happen as a reflection of things going on in my life. I have a friend who knows all about dream interpretation and I tell her all about my dreams. Apparently I only have sexual dreams when I'm getting over someone. Worst time ever too. It isn't fun to finally get a woman out of your head and the next thing you know you are waking up remembering a sweaty session with her in your dream.

 

I've always enjoyed nightmares, like it's my own personal horror movie. Maybe if I enjoy them they can't be properly classified as nightmares? When I was much younger I wasn't able to look at it in this light, and was scared shitless.

 

Oh I would like to added that if you get good enough you can learn to realize you are dreaming and manipulate it to your advantage for a short period of time.

Specifically, there is a brief period of time, before your body will naturally wake up, that you will regain most of your conscious mind back, which is why you usually only realizing you are dreaming right before you wake up in the morning. Use these few seconds/minutes and go wild. Jump whoevers bones you see :lol:.

Just be sure that your dream is crazy enough that you are sure it is a dream. That would be an extremely problematic mistake.....

 

Ugh I used to hate getting wet dreams if I didn't ejaculate for a while. What a mess.

(Also something I noticed, when I used to take anti-depressants every day, if I missed a pill even one day, I would be guaranteed to have a wet dream that night.)


Actually I kinda afraid of dreams in general, I fear going to sleep, and I don't even really have nightmares, just weird situations that freak me out. Though in the mornings I get pissed when I am woken up in the middle of a dream and don't get to see it to the end.

 

Well anti-depressants are supposed to decrease libido and make it more difficult to get erections and orgasm and such I think. But I didn't really have that problem too bad, the only real problem was it caused me to put on weight.

I was taking an SSRI rather than a SNRI though.

I wonder why that is the case. I don't think I've ever heard a "sexual dream" as an observer...

 

I always have sexual dreams. Like every week.,