Like, it is all I can think about. Wanking doesn't help one bit, I can wank 6 or 7 times a day, and I'll still be horny as heck. I just want to be 18 and post and ad on Craiglist for sex. I feel like a freaking slut. Is this normal and healthy? Ugh...
yes and no. teen horniness is normal. going hookup with risk of STD and various pathogens is not a good idea. geez, u can even get the flu i think?
The horniness is normal, you're a teenager and out. I found that when I came out my libido sky rocketed. I don't think posting on Craigslist for sex is a good idea, it's a good way to get STDs.
And the thing is, I know posting on Craigslist wouldn't be the smartest thing to do, but I still want to do it.... UGH! I don't even feel like a human sometimes, I feel like an inanimate object slut.
dont do it! it's not worth the thrill and risk! if you don't feel like human, maybe work on humanly qualities? lol. maybe wait a few years, it might subside
To elaborate on what Ticklish Fish was saying. It is very common for youth, essentially teenagers, to have high levels of sexual desire. Not to mention, your state of mind and current wishes are extremely common too. However, especially at our young ages we have to remember, and learn quickly, to thinks with our brains first. For instance, many people are fans of rough sex, some to the degree that they have fantasies about being forced/raped. It is completely fine and healthy to have this fantasies and carry them out playfully with their trusted partners. However, it is crucial for these individuals to recognize that should they get raped, it will not be the excited experience they have dreamt. So its understandable that you have these desires. But you have to recognize that they will almost never turn out as flattering as you had imagined. Its seems that you have a high sex drive, which I'm sure you future partner will love. But you have to remember to look out for yourself. Think about what it is going to feel like after the hookup. You dont need to go let guys have their way with you in the backs of vehicles. You are worth more than that. I'm not saying that you have to wait for a knight in shining armor, but atleast wait until you are aquinted with someone. There are plenty of options in college.
I really understand what you mean, and I honestly wish for you that it's just teen hormones overdoing it, and that you're going to be more in control in the future. I deeply wish it because I wouldn't want for anybody to feel like you feel now for the rest of their lives. I know how it is. I feel like that. For me, it's not my hormones because I've been a sex addict before I was even a teen, and it has not calmed down at all, no matter what. Being stuck in a hospital bed agonizing because I couldn't orgasm this way, the physical pain that haunts as time without it passes, the lovers who don't understand and feel pressured, the urges that get you to do stuff totally out of your control... Stuff that hurts people and stuff that you'll regret. That's not cool. It's really harsh. And then, to struggle to find somebody who understands and who won't feel endangered by your extreme libido, somebody who's going to hold your hand and be there even when they can't help you, and just accept you for who you are, That's real tough. So that's why I sincerely wish for it to be normal teenage hormones, and pass, as it should. I wish you good luck.
Purple Crab mentions sex addiction. It is a real problem for some people (me included) and it doesn't just imply having sex with other people. It can be a problem before you get to that - and it can certainly lead you down a path where you're doing that too. Are you watching a lot of porn presently, while you're masturbating? Do you think that even that might be a problem - i.e. are you doing it a lot? (6 or 7 times a day sounds like quite a bit if you're doing it at that rate every day.) So you might already have a problem, which is why despite logic telling you that you shouldn't engage in random sex with strangers, you're brain is telling you that you should anyway. It could be your addicted brain talking. Hopefully this isn't the case. But do you think, if you were going to be really honest with yourself, that your approach to sex is obsessive or compulsive? You can carry on the conversation here, or you can send me a PM and we can chat one on one. I might be able to relate to how you're feeling, and be able to offer some advice.
Sorry for not responding, I've been busy lately. The last few days, I seem to have calmed down, and I've only masturbated once. Also, we had a visitor at our high school talking about sex, diseases, etc. and I got a one on one session with the guy who was leading the program. He said it's most likely teen hormones, and that they should calm down eventually. He also strongly disagreed against the whole Craigslist thing, and said it carries way too many risks. But all in all, I guess I've calmed down a bit, but being super busy has put my mind on other things besides sex.