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Confused!!!!!!

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Dattebayo18, Feb 28, 2008.

  1. Dattebayo18

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    just wondering if you know the person your dating has no stds should you still use a condom during sex???
     
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    No glove, no love...

    There are way too many variables to know unequivocally that your partner does not have a STD.
     
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    Don't take the chance. Always use protection and be safe. Better safe than sorry. :slight_smile:
     
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    I've wondered that also. If 2 people have sex and they both have never had sex ever before and they don't use condoms this first time, is there anyway you can catch anything? I'm not sure but I'm still going to use a condom even if someone says they have never had sex before.
     
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    There's no way to know if someone is truly free from stds, unless they were locked in a metal chamber with nobody else since birth. Play it safe.
     
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    Please, please, please...................... always wear condoms!!!
     
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    Someone may SAY they have never had sex before but can you believe them 100%?

    It is much safer to use a condom regardless. It is also a sensible habit to get into from the first time.
     
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    it's not worth AIDS
     
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    Always.

    Here's the bottom line- if you're old enough to have sex, you're old enough to be responsible for your health and your partner's health.

    People lie. People often don't even know they have an STD. You're responsible for keeping yourself healthy - so no condom, so sex, no exceptions.
     
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    Bingo... we have a winner.
     
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    Even then, some people are born with STD's. I'm positive for herpes type A and that's a sexually transmitted disease. My mum found out when i was five cos I got a coldsore the size of a teenager's blocked pimple on my mouth.
    COLDSORES are genetically inherited and are also passed on by kissing or oral sex.
    HIV has something like a 50% chance of inheritance if one of your parents is positive.
    THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS RISK FREE SEX.
    ALWAYS use a condom.
    Remember :
    No glove, no love.
    If it's not on, then its not on.

    Seriously, just don't do it without a condom ever!
     
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    Better safe than sorry
     
  13. Quitex

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    It's not to just "use a condom" but please, learn dos and don'ts too. It's depressing to see someone using a latex condom and pouring oil-based lube on it :_:
     
  14. Latinokid

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    I think you should because you can never b e too sure and the disease can be dorment. Until you have known the person you want to have sex with for a long time and have that trust for that kind of intimacy then go for it.
     
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    Yes, if you ask them do you have aids, I dont think they would say yes.