Dilations and upkeep for Trans females post op

So, my partner has just hit her three month post op date, and while super excited, she has had a slight complication this evening



she got a dilator stuck.... more precisely, the largest dilator, stuck in her neo vagina.

while it came out after a bit of tugging, she now has some discomfort and a touch of pain, but no bleeding and no abnormal discharge......

what do we do if this happens again?

i am worried that we will end up hurting her if she gets another stuck


Thanks everyone

Snowy

 

i wasnt in the room when she did her last dilation, but i was around for the aftermath of trying to get it out.... i am thinking lack of lube is the reason for its stuckness.....

thanks Bree..... i will have to mention to her that more lube is key

Snowy

 

basically put, its a medical dildo.....

its a smooth sightly curved medical device made from super hard plastic type stuffs

not ure how else to describe this...... um, here lemme see if i can find a pic

http://www.soulsourceenterprises.com/images/products/productpic_grs1.jpg
and its the right colours too..... The orange one is the one she got stuck......

 

@Kara

She contacted her physician in Montreal and when she told them, they knew what had happened. Lube (about 4 times more than what she was using) was recommended, and to take it easy for the next few days with Tylenol to control pain.

Its weird, I was freaking out and wanted to take her to emergency when it wouldn't come out, but Montreal said it happens and as long as there is no blood or discharge, she is fine. i have her making a follow up appointment with her trans health specialist in the morning, as i know he is booking into February now

Thanks for the feedback everyone

Snowy

 

Update

So she just finished dilating, and everything went much much better. she used more lube and that seemed to do the trick.

Dilator cam out just fine, no sticking at all.

Thanks for the concern everyone!

Snowy