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Is sex a good thing if you want it really bad?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by KingdomKeyDK, Feb 7, 2013.

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  1. KingdomKeyDK

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    I am a virgin. I will probable lose my virginity soon, but if you have seen my recent posts, I can't yet. I want sex so bad I can't help it. I have fantasies all the time. Is it good to want it this bad. I mean I know my hormones are going crazy and all that crap, but I do not think it is normal.
     
    #1 KingdomKeyDK, Feb 7, 2013
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    Being a teenager and feeling extremely horny a lot of the time is completely normal.
    I get like that too as well.
     
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    Well you see I jerk off to every hot gay thing I see. I know, that is really weird, but it is the reason I think I'm not normal.
     
    #3 KingdomKeyDK, Feb 8, 2013
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    The majority of teens have a strong sex drive. It's not weird.
     
    #4 BubbleGumNinja, Feb 8, 2013
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    You are a person. You are horny. You like boys. All fine. Condoms condoms condoms :slight_smile:

    also please tell me you aren't 12.
     
    #5 OMGWTFBBQ, Feb 8, 2013
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    It's totally normal. You are a young person and have a very high sex drive.

    That being said - don't be stupid. I've been doing the same thing (waiting, masturbating) for years. I'm 20, and it's' the same old thing. You'll be fine.
     
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    27, virgin, always horny. I'm not about to go have sex with anyone bc I'm horny, it wouldn't mean anything. Until I'm stronger as an individual, have confidence, and self esteem, any sex would not lead to anything healthy. Unhealthy people find unhealthy people, and I do not want that.
     
    #7 Akatosh, Feb 8, 2013
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    No Im not 12, but waiting is a killer. Thanks for all the advice.
     
    #8 KingdomKeyDK, Feb 11, 2013
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    How you feel is OK. Listen to your peers in here and take it one day at a time

    your certainly well within the norm for young men your age - gay or straight
     
    #9 derrik, Feb 11, 2013
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    sex is always good
     
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    There is nothing wrong with you. I'm assuming you are somewhere in puberty. Testosterone increases the sex drive profoundly. So, for you to be insanely horny all the time is totally normal.

    It's best to only have sex with people you trust. And use condoms.
     
    #11 Ianthe, Feb 11, 2013
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    Ok. I am just so into someone right now. He doesn't know yet (cuz he's str8), but I think he gets the hint. Thanks you guys. I appreciate it. And I will use condoms :slight_smile:
     
    #12 KingdomKeyDK, Feb 11, 2013
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    Not always.
    I've had several bad experiences which have developed into regrets by taking part in sexual activity just because I 'felt like it' at the time.
    Abstinence is a good thing, trust me.
     
    #13 isobella, Feb 15, 2013
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