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Is it healthy to have a spanking fetish?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Jamipaau, Feb 9, 2013.

  1. Jamipaau

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    I'm very confused with these feelings. I'm young and I've known I've wanted someone to discipline me since I was 8.
     
  2. Pain

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    Some people like to feel pain, others don't.

    Spanking is relatively normal, considering some other fetishes there are.
     
  3. FruitFly

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    Yes, it is healthy to have a spanking fetish. There's nothing unhealthy about having the desire to be disciplined, at least not at the level your opening post suggests.
     
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    well it's not unhealthy. Like QueVidaLaMia said - it's relatively allright compared to other fetishes. Time wasted having fun is not wasted time - Bertrand Russell. He's awesome btw. So as long as you enjoy it and hopefully not having negative effects on yourself then it's insanely acceptable haha.
     
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    It would only be considered unhealthy if that's the only way that you are able to enjoy sex or a sexual situation with another person.
     
  6. falsereading

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    no more or less healthy than any other type of fetish
     
  7. Jamipaau

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    Thanks for the responses. I'm aware there is a community out there. I'm a virgin so I don't know if I'd enjoy intimacy, but I can imagine doing ao once I meet the right person. Kissing is fun to me and I find other things hot. I'm a little afraid of sex but I feel it's normal to be.