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Porn confusion

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Vicking, Mar 10, 2013.

  1. Vicking

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    Ok, so when I was younger, straight porn fulfilled all my needs, as long as there was a male on screen. Then I got older, and realized gay porn worked too, although I can still get aroused by SP.

    The thing is, even when I admitted to myself I'm gay, there is one kind of porn that turns me on in a very confusing way. I've always had a strong inclination for BDSM (well, actually only the "DS" part, and also a huge foot fetish), but what makes me confused about myself is that I actually get very aroused with Femdom videos.:confused:

    It's so hard for me to imagine being dominated by a woman on real life, and I'm still not sure if it's really the femdom in the videos that works for me, or the fact that someone is being dominated. Even on lesbian videos, which I'm really not into, there was a time or two that did something for me.

    What do you guys think? Am I crazy??:bang:
     
  2. I think you're getting turned on by the dominated male, that is to say you would probably be the submissive partner in a BDSM relationship. As they say, "Every hammer needs a nail." In any case, you are most certainly not crazy.
     
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    Like the other person said - this. And not crazy. Plus, you can be responding to some of the sexual energy you see even if the actors aren't the right type. I think that's more likely for people into DS because the person's gender isn't always relevant.
     
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    Nothing crazy about it. What turns people on varies. Many straight women get turned on by gay porn and straight guys like lesbian porn. Personally, I'm bi but really don't enjoy gay porn.

    Don't analyze too much.
     
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    I quite enjoy Gay Porn & I was quite confused as to why I liked CFNM videos & Women using Strap-on's on Men, then it dawned on me, you don't see the Woman's body on the CFNM video & the Woman is taking the part of the Gay Man with the Strapon, I guess that's why I like it, I guess there's no threat to my Gayness then Lol :slight_smile:
     
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    Perhaps it's because the Dominatrix is not like a woman & the Male Slave is the sexual being :icon_bigg
     
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    Fantasies exist for a reason. It doesn't mean that a person is crazy nor does it mean that you are required to act out every fantasy.