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Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by William1, Nov 28, 2006.

  1. William1

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    For those like me who dont have someone to have sex with, how often do you do 'it'?

    Like for me, 2 to 3 times a day is pretty average, but I never asked anybody else, so I don't know if thats too much or too little. I feel like I want to do it more often but Im a boarder at school so I dont get enough time by myself.

    I get sort of edgy if I don't do it often enough (and its not nice to be hard in class and places like that). Does neone else feel like that?
     
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    When I was about your age (well from 14 as that's when it started working for me) it did it twice a day - morning and night - and sometimes another once or even twice during the day. It kept wanting attention so it got that attention, plus as you mentioned being hard when you can't do anything about it is annoying and can be embarrassing.

    So I don't think you have anything to worry about.

    As you get older you will probably find you do it less often. That's quite normal too.
     
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    Once or twice a week. I've never been one to do it several times a day, or even really everyday, for that matter.

    I would probably do it more often, except for the fact that I'm now at college and I suddenly have a heck of a lot less privacy. I'm not a huge fan of doing it in the shower, so my options become a lot more limited.

    I don't know. It seems like lately I've been focusing more on the relationships (not that i have any <_< ) and the interactions I have with other people than on just my sexual desires. I guess that's one way I could be considered more effeminine...
     
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    I'm 18 right now. When I was younger, I would get hard *all* the time. Sitting in the middle of class, right before getting up to do a presentation or something in front of people always seemed like the time it was wake up. Sometimes it was because I was daydreaming about the guy(s) around me, but usually it was just because the moon was in the correct spot..

    Luckily, I outgrew that phase.. (Nothing like having to get up and give a half-hour presentation in speech class sporting a hard-on :eek: )

    Welpers, guess I'll answer your question.. I used to be almost religious about "it" (twice a day, morning and night), but it did mildly help with the random erections. Now, it varies depending on what mood I'm in. Perhaps 3-4 times a week, sometimes less or more.

    Hope that helped!
     
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    I used to do it every night without fail. Recently, I have been trying to cut down to 2-3 times a week. Eventually, I would like to stop entirely. I'm not sure why. I guess it kind of felt like i was addicted to some extent, and I didn't like that. But it's totally normal to do it more. I just have decided to stop for some reason.

    By the way, tight boxer-briefs + baggy pants or shorts = invisible erection :thumbsup:
    If you don't mind it feeling that way, that is. Always kept me safe throughout gym class while seeing other guys change in the locker rooms :eusa_danc
     
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    Depends, lately havent been doing much.. so i been doing it every day, sometimes twice a day. and other times, if im busy i wont have one untill the weekend so i'll go about 5 days.
     
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    Yes, I tend to do it more when I'm off work and not doing much at home etc.

    Normally it's a couple of times a week, plus sex with my partner once or twice a week. When I'm at home on holiday it's most days.

    When I was younger, two or three times a day was typical.
     
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    hmm well to be completely honest it's very varied for me. Usually 3 or 4 times a week (which is more than i'd like to), when i'm away I can go weeks without 'knocking one out', And when i'm busy I rarely do it either.

    Just when boredom creeps in i suppose am more likely to hit the porn and relieve my sexual tension.
     
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    I'm pretty similar. If I'm really busy, I don't think about it that much. But if I'm home, and have nothing else to do...

    It's kind of weird for me. It seems like I really cut down when I went to college. Partly because I lost all privacy, and partly because I started thinking more about the relationships and less about the raw desires.
     
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    well without a doubt i'd prefer a relationship, I suppose it's when you get backed up thinking about one person you really want to be with that perhaps the numbers go up
     
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    I tend to do it almost every night, though sometimes I just don't feel like it. When I was younger I did it at least once a day without fail.
     
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    You definitely need a girls view here-
    Probobly about 4-6 times...I'm a hornball. On slow days I do it once or twice. it depends on my mood/the privacy level I have/hormones...but it gets done at least once. :embarassed:

    and I have only this to say to the boys-
    HAHA, I DON'T GET INCONVIENT ERECTIONS!
     
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    Yeah, aren't you so special... :icon_roll
     
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    We don't have periods though, so I guess the annoying problems balance out.... :wink:
     
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    hahaha

    I used to do it every day a few years ago.. sometimes I'd do it twice... But now I do it probably 5-6 times a week. All depends on how busy I am and my mood...
     
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    Oh snap!

    Hrm for me it really varies.

    If I'm in a relationship I don't tend do to it at all...for obvious reasons :slight_smile:

    If I'm not in a relationship I might do it once a week? Sometimes I'll go 14-17 days without actually doing it. Mostly it's because I'm busy or just forget. /shrug

    Oh - and as for embarrassing erections, the trick is to keep the blood flowing through the rest of you body, so moving your legs, clenching your toes, feet etc if you're sitting down. Combined with tight underwear (briefs) it's been foolproof for me.
     
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    Yep, breifs became my savior throughout middle school, although I've never heard of the keep the blood flowing idea...makes sense though, I'll definitely have to try it next time, as well as keep in mind that I could be experiencing horrible cramps and bloating :icon_bigg.

    And as for the original question...I dunno, I guess about 6 times a week...perhaps more on break when I'm really bored, or less if it's a really busy week.
     
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    Well if we're covering this one... I find the best thing to do is to move your erection and to sandwich it between the elasticated waist of your boxers/briefs and your stomach. Thus no embarassing bulges
     
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    The only problem there is, depending on the type of the pants you are wearing, you might actually expose yourself if your penis is "sandwiched" too high
     
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    *slaps every man in this thread*
    SORRY- THAT MUST JUST THE BE THE PMS....
    LOL, so I suppose you are lucky...
    Imagine bleeding from your dick for a week every month, feeling like puking, fat, your back aching, and your guts feeling as if someone has turned them inside-out and held a blowtorch to them in attempt to imitate a cheesy horror movie plot....
    not fun.
    BUT.....NO ONE KNOWS WHEN i'M AROUSED!!!!!!!!! HAHA!!!!!!!!!.....because that'd just be embarassing....
    Once, my friends and I were taking pictures around this secluded area near our houses that we call the dropoff, and four of us posed on a pile of logs while another took the picture. One friend had a massive hard-on, and when I developed the pictures (from my computer, thankfully) I discovered that the camera angle was right up his shorts leg and that I had a one-eyed snake staring me in the face....
    ewww.
    :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: