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( Girls) too scared and too much anxiety to handle an orgasm?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Unsurevirgin, May 25, 2013.

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So I've masturbated and every time I feel a build of an orgasm ,my body tightens ,csnt breathe and my legs go up and I don't feel relaxed .i will feel so much anxiety and I let it go . What's wrong with me? I'm not even sure if I can have a sex life ....or love life

#1 Unsurevirgin, May 25, 2013
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Building up to an orgasm is really a building up of tension. That's pretty much how it works. If it's possible for you to push through the tension, an orgasm is basically the release of it. If you don't feel like you can, though, that's still cool. Just enjoy the sensation without setting orgasm as the goal.

#2 Maddy, May 25, 2013
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Thank u

#3 Unsurevirgin, May 25, 2013

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