Rimming or being rimmed?

This thread discussed it. The OP thought it was "gross" and many replies, including mine, described how delightful it can be.

http://emptyclosets.com/forum/anony.../89629-do-you-find-any-sexual-acts-gross.html

There are probably other threads, too.

 

Nah. Not for me.

 

In my previous post, I should have picked a word other than "described", since it wasn't an explicit discussion. :eusa_doh:

 

Love it. Both ways.

I don´t get the gross.
Everything sexual is gross if you really think about it, even kissing.
But if you are turned on, you don´t mind anything.

Maybe those who think it is gross are virgins or haven´t been really turned on by someone?

 

Or they're just not into it, turned on or not.

I haven't tried either, but am more open to receiving, even if it makes me slightly more self-conscious of hygiene. Come to think of it, I would prefer my partner have good hygienic practices if we're to be that intimate with one another.

 

Not being into it is not the same as finding it gross. I´m not into kinky stuff (yet), but I don´t think it´s gross or whatever.

I said I don´t get the gross.

I also don´t get when girls run off to wash their armpits in the ladies room and feel terrible about sweaty armpits. I love it when my guy is sweaty and he loves it if I´m sweaty. We love eachothers natural scents. I´d recognise it out of hundreds. He also fell for his ex because of his scent.

 

Exactly. At first I was unsure but the way you can twist and pleasure your partner with it is such and amazing turn on.

 

Not sure, I haven't tried it

 

Except from some romantic but chaste kissing, I'm still a complete virgin.
Not sure about rimming, as long as my potential partner kept things clean so to speak I'd be willing to try it.

 

I know it would feel great haha, but I would have to be super clean to let someone do that to me. Also if I was to do that to someone else I would have to know that they were really clean as well! Its not gross as long as everyone is clean Just the same as eating out a chick, if a chick is really dirty that's gross!

 

Same as giving head foir that matter.

 

I've given a guy a rimjob before because he asked for one and I knew he was clean down there; he was very appreciative of it and I didn't find it unpleasant at all. Never gotten one though, and it's not really something I have much interest in

 

Yeah I was going to add that in there as well! No1 wants someone that's been sitting in their body juices

 

Love getting Rimmed, never actually rimmed somebody else

 

I have been rimmed before by some partners. Although I do find it pleasurable, I would not be willing to return the favor. I try to tell this to a partner before we have sex. I'm just not interested in putting my mouth down there. I would be ok topping a guy though, since it would be with a condom on.

 

Rim jobs are wonderful, both giving and receiving.

It is of course, understandable that people have reservations about doing it and about hygiene.

I will point out that you can use dental dams as a barrier between your mouth and tongue and his ass. Thus, avoiding the hygiene concerns, and even more importantly it's a form of safe sex. So you're killing to birds with one latex barrier.

You can make a dental dam out of a condom. All you need to do is take it out of its package, unroll it, cut off the ends, then cut down the length of the tube. Ta-da! Dental dam.

Next, you just need to apply some lube to the area. Preferably a water based lube since it'll dry on its own. (Though I think silicone is better for anal sex for precisely the opposite reason.) Once you've got some lube there, you just lay the damn over the area, and you're all set to begin rimming.

Now, there is a tiny little problem with this... the taste of latex isn't very appealing (especially if they have spermicide). Do not worry though, because there is a solution to this problem. Instead of using regular condoms look for flavored condoms. Yes, that's right - you can now eat your boyfriends ass through what looks and tastes like a fruit roll up. Congratulations. :lol:

It'll help if they're the thin type of condoms as well.

Hopefully this will be helpful to those who'd be interested in trying to give a rimjob, but have very clear and understandable reservations about doing it. Even if not, at least everyone knows it's an option.

 

I personally enjoy it the few times I have received it...to each his own though!

This just made me crack up laughing. Haha