How to overcome thinking of having sex frequently ??? No rude posts plz

The mind does what it pleases.
If you want to stop, it'll stop eventually with some concentration, or just as you get older.

 

perhaps, try having sex?

 

Ok. I am going to be completely honest here because I am not ashamed nor do I feel it is anything anyone should be ashamed about. But I very much know the feeling. I started having thoughts like that when I was 15. And it hasn't changed much. Only difference is 18 years later, I have other things to occupy my time (aka responibilties, children etc.) And I am lucky to have a husband that match my sexual drive and needs. But yeah even today I still watch porn on a daily basis (if I am able to) - I think about it all the time and crave it just as much.

So I can't really say if it will change when you get older. But your impulses will and your choices will mature with you as well.

Just go with what feels right to you. Just remember to keep it legal and always safe!!

 

No need to feel guilty about anything here, lots of people think about sex a good deal. It's more common than one would think. From age 13 to , er, well, into my 20's I thought about it a lot of the time, and I still do, even though I've been with my partner now for about 20 years. I think I might wear him out at times

But as others have noted, once you find more sexual outlets, things come into better focus. I spend a good deal of time with my other interests; writing, reading, hiking, films, museum-going...and even if sex does pop into my thoughts, it's not quite all the time anymore.

Be easy on yourself; sex is natural; guilt is manufactured.