So recently I have chosen to except who I am as a ( bisexual) male. But i fill like there are some discrepancies with in me. I Always thought guys were attractive but i only think that a girl is attractive if she is like drop died amazing. I will always prefer guys over girls and all my friends that I have came out to are ether gay or bi and they all say " oh you are just more gay than straight" but that makes no senses to me at all. basically what I am asking is if I am really bi or am I just fully gay and have a eye for beautiful woman. PLEAS HELP BECAUSE IREALLYDONTKNOW :roflmao::bang:
What's to know? You described it very well. You like guys and some girls. If you could still see yourself dating/mating either one, it makes you bi, even if it's not a clean half-and-half. My definition isn't perfect, but sexuality is a somewhat nebulous trait to be labeled. We make do with what we've got, and bi works well enough for me. Just relax and go with it. Welcome to EC, btw.
I'm feeling the same as you all the time. Sexually, I am super-attracted to males. But only a little to females. (enough to call me bi, at least) Romantically, I am only attracted to males. I can only see myself with a male. Recently, a girl flirted with me on facebook, and I didn't like it at all. If it was a guy though, I'd probably fancy the situation more. I have a question for you, that might help you, and I think we can both learn from it anyway. Do you see yourself with a man, a woman, or both? And I mean like, long-term relationship, in the bed, talking to friends about the person, getting married (if it's allowed in your country) Thinking about stuff like that will not help you in your current situation, but it will help you get a clearer image of what you want. I have no clue myself. I know I like men more, I only get interested in men whenever I see them, females are like, not there (sexually) But I can get turned on by them. Guess we're in the same boat. Also I'm sorry if this post didn't really help you.
